Many years ago, when our two daughters lived at home and were big enough to help out, I had this epiphany. My wife worked hard at home and had a job as well. So we always had dinner together, the four of us. I announced, "From now on, when Mother cooks, the three of us will clean up afterwards. And, one day a week, we will prepare meals and clean up after ourselves." My wife liked that idea very much and so did I. I encourage all of you to use it at home to help build responsible young adults. If there is any day when Mothers should not have to clean up after dinner, it is today!