This is a problem I have with the interpretation many have provided of the Christian God.
He creates many with heavy, cruel burdens that He could relieve in a heartbeat.
One does not build character existing on easy-street in a fallen world run by the Adversary. Overcoming this world, our flesh and the god of this world is what Christians have to contend with in this age. That said, God has healed many in a heartbeat according to their faith in Him and His will. Others He has not.
If a human tormented, or allowed torment of, children the way God does, we would be rightly reviled. Yet here we are.
Most of us choose our own condition and suffer the consequences of our choices, even passing them down to our children and visit them upon our neighbors. Even Jefferson noted that human nature will willfully tolerate evil, as long as evils are tolerable rather than abolish the forms to which they are become accustomed and throw off such conditions for liberty. Human history teaches us that men prefer to be slaves and will willingly sell themselves into it rather than risk the unknown of self-reliance.
We sit here and read in I Corinthians 7
and admit that it is unreasonable to expect human beings to contain their passions. Yet at the same time, God gives men passions for each other and says they can't act on them. How cruel is that?
I don't know. Ask the guy who thinks he has a right to take your stuff or have sex with your wife or maybe your children simply because he has vile passions to act upon and take what he wants because he must satisfy his desires?
Who are you to tell him 'no'? Who are you to say his 'passions' are wrong?
How cruel is that? To deny him his passions?
Is it because you claim to be a 'victim' of his passions?
Who decides what is moral? Selfish humans who reject a spiritual nature of selflessness to satisfy the flesh? Or the One whom created us in the first place?
And in the case of victimless homosexual bonding, we have humans opposing it.
Because it is not natural and God states plainly in both Old and New Testaments that it is an abomination and wicked. He did not design us for that perversion.
It just seems rather ridiculous.
To the world, God's ways have always been seen as foolish and stupid - because men think they know better how to live, as his 6000 year written history proves.