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Here is another dirty little aspect about TROs that is also implicitly manifest in Red Flag laws:
(From the same link in the above post.)
Someone fears that harm may come.... no harm actually has to have been committed....
Is it a crime for a man to slam his fist down on his coffee table in his home?
Is it a crime for a woman to throw her glass pitcher across her kitchen and smash it on her wall?
Obviously not, however both are deemed "legitimate" causes of "fear of harm."

I have seen it more than once. Big guy, works on oil rigs, can be as gentle as they come, but size and occupation matter, and perceptions by those who make assumptions about people based on their line of work.
There is a pervasive presumption that big, strong, people are violent. People who often speak loudly because they have suffered hearing damage working in a noisy environment, and where to be heard, you have to speak loudly--where safety and lives may depend on it.
There is a persistent perception that such people are violent by people who speak in hushed tones and often refer to others as "we", and who have never had a callus on their hands. There is a presumption that the woman is kind, honest and gentle, whereas the man is presumed to be deceitful and violent, and that presumption is endemic in the system.
If she asserts something, he has to prove otherwise, against a pervasive presumption of guilt.
In the meantime, while the sheriff's deputy will stand there and watch him remove his underwear from the drawer as he packs what they let him take, he better hope she doesn't have the combination or key to his gun safe or she and the new boyfriend will sell them off while he is locked out of the house he risked his health, life, and limb to buy.
Hang the fact that her infidelity, already in full swing, just might be cause for him to raise his voice, or be upset. After all, she's pushing his buttons, now, unless he has the sense to not play into that.