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Re: Obituaries for 2017
« Reply #550 on: April 22, 2017, 10:02:25 pm »
The scenario sounds all too familiar. I would not be the least bit surprised if it turned out to be heroin.
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« Reply #551 on: April 22, 2017, 10:53:31 pm »
The scenario sounds all too familiar. I would not be the least bit surprised if it turned out to be heroin.

Very sad...living in a trailer park after stardom.  As for the heroin, unfortunately, you're probably correct.

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« Reply #552 on: April 23, 2017, 02:31:47 am »
I heard she had fallen on some hard times, I remember reading she was siupposed to have a cameo on "Arrested Development 4" but it fell through.

56 is too young. RIP.
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« Reply #553 on: April 23, 2017, 02:36:44 am »
The scenario sounds all too familiar. I would not be the least bit surprised if it turned out to be heroin.

A very talented cheftestant from "Hell's KItchen 16" ODed two days ago in Philly. Not releasing which drug caused the OD, but it made all the tabloids. He was 36.
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« Reply #554 on: April 23, 2017, 12:23:39 pm »
A very talented cheftestant from "Hell's KItchen 16" ODed two days ago in Philly. Not releasing which drug caused the OD, but it made all the tabloids. He was 36.

Addiction/overdose is becoming a very disturbing trend and its just not from street drugs but prescription drugs as well.  Something needs to be done.

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« Reply #555 on: April 23, 2017, 12:58:10 pm »
Addiction/overdose is becoming a very disturbing trend and its just not from street drugs but prescription drugs as well.  Something needs to be done.
It's a symptom. The disease is more spiritual than physical. You would think, after the sixties and seventies, people would have learned that Heroin was bad sh*t and avoid it. But it's a new generation, busy reinventing the wheel and making those same mistakes, often at the behest of the hippies who are seeking relevancy even now.
 

Funny how the Democrats of today, the Liberals and Communists who pushed the same sh*t in the sixties now have the same 'social problems' from back then, after dumping enough space budget to establish colonies on the Moon and Mars on the "problems right here at home".

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« Reply #556 on: April 23, 2017, 01:10:02 pm »
The scenario sounds all too familiar. I would not be the least bit surprised if it turned out to be heroin.

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« Reply #557 on: April 23, 2017, 01:28:52 pm »
Addiction/overdose is becoming a very disturbing trend and its just not from street drugs but prescription drugs as well.  Something needs to be done.

The first thing the government will do, to that end, will be to go for the low-hanging fruit:  People who obtain Opioids legally.  They're easiest because presumably the DEA can simply punish Drs. who write the prescriptions and the drugs will stop flowing.

There's just the little matter of the fact these are the people who will suffer the most, but that's OK, it's government.  It's like gun control always taking guns from the most innocent first.  It's OK as long as bureaucrats feel good doing it.
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« Reply #558 on: April 23, 2017, 01:32:39 pm »
As someone who took prescription pain meds for all of 10 minutes once when I tore cartilage in my knee, I have a hard time understanding this particular addiction.  The drugs I was prescribed made me feel like (expletive).  I don't even think they relieved the pain. I just think they made me not care.  Not a feeling I like. 

Pennsylvania is spending gobs of taxpayer money on this "crisis."  One of the local TV channels is running incessant news stories and advertisements on the subject.  It also appears that an increasing number of clinics have popped up, claiming to offer a cure for this addiction.  It's another reason not to watch tv.

Maybe I'm hard hearted, but I don't see a problem here that should be my concern. There are plenty of people out there in a lot worse pain. Why reach for some powerful drug every time you feel little more than a pinch?  Maybe it's because we now have a generation of delicate snowflakes who don't know how to tough it out. 

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« Reply #559 on: April 23, 2017, 02:26:57 pm »
Very sad...living in a trailer park after stardom.  As for the heroin, unfortunately, you're probably correct.

An article I read said she was living in a trailer park with her husband.

Not jumping to conclusions without evidence, but was he part of her problem?  Could he not work and provide them a home?  Was he doing drugs?

Don't know if those questions will ever be answered, but I find this story tragic.
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« Reply #560 on: April 23, 2017, 02:29:25 pm »
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« Reply #561 on: April 23, 2017, 02:31:29 pm »
She was on the Booze Cruise too.

Apparently so was Cuba Gooding, Sr.
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« Reply #562 on: April 23, 2017, 02:36:11 pm »
Fame, and particularly early-life fame, doesn't seem to do anyone any good.  Some rise above, but many are not able to.

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« Reply #563 on: April 23, 2017, 02:38:09 pm »
I don't think she made great money at residuals or gigs, but it seems she should have had enough to not be living in a trailer park in small town Indiana. That tends to hint at a substance abuse problem.
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« Reply #564 on: April 23, 2017, 03:21:42 pm »
I agree, @Applewood . I'm a Pittsburgher living in WV, and both our states' news media incessantly yammer about the opioid crisis and "what is government going to do about it?!?!?!?"  but no one seems to consider the abusers' responsibility in all this.
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« Reply #565 on: April 23, 2017, 03:25:24 pm »
Addiction/overdose is becoming a very disturbing trend and its just not from street drugs but prescription drugs as well.  Something needs to be done.

President Trump, AG Sessions and the Homeland Security guy Kelly have all stated the Border Wall is in part to impede the importation of dangerous drugs to our children and family members.

My understanding is, Heroin is more easy to get and cheaper, than prescription pain meds (Opioids).

The prescription variety are predictable, the dosage and content are clear. Heroin is a roll of the dice. Unexpectedly strong stuff killed Janice Joplin and Jimi Hendrix.

They were of course foolish, but not intending to commit suicide. I believe few today, intend to OD and die.

Once in the grip of Opioids and Heroin, you just want more, your judgment is gone.  Unlike the two above, Prince apparently OD'd on prescription variety meds. 

Modern medicine is great for surgeries, but pretty awful when it comes to getting folks off pain med addictions. 
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« Reply #566 on: April 23, 2017, 03:31:01 pm »
Free heroin is the way to go. Hand it out like candy. Manufactured here without impurities and dosage controlled.
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« Reply #567 on: April 23, 2017, 03:32:48 pm »
I good place to start understanding the Opioid issue would be to knock off the idea that everybody who takes them needs to get off them.  There are people with chronic conditions that don't respond to other medications.
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« Reply #568 on: April 23, 2017, 03:33:22 pm »
Very sad...living in a trailer park after stardom.  As for the heroin, unfortunately, you're probably correct.
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Don't know for sure yet about heroin or other drugs, but the Indianapolis Star says Moran and her husband
first moved to Indianapolis to help care for his ailing mother. They'd also hit hard times before moving there,
when their home was foreclosed upon and they were forced to sell another couple of California properties.


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« Reply #569 on: April 23, 2017, 03:48:49 pm »
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Don't know for sure yet about heroin or other drugs, but the Indianapolis Star says Moran and her husband
first moved to Indianapolis to help care for his ailing mother. They'd also hit hard times before moving there,
when their home was foreclosed upon and they were forced to sell another couple of California properties.

She was reportedly kicked out of her trailer park home in Indiana because of her hard-partying ways.
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« Reply #570 on: April 23, 2017, 04:03:39 pm »
I good place to start understanding the Opioid issue would be to knock off the idea that everybody who takes them needs to get off them.  There are people with chronic conditions that don't respond to other medications.
I have no idea, where you got the idea that "everybody who takes them needs to get off."

But people that no longer need them, get strung out on them, cut off by their doctors, and turn to deadly Heroin.
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« Reply #571 on: April 23, 2017, 04:07:42 pm »
I have no idea, where you got the idea that "everybody who takes them needs to get off."

But people that no longer need them, get strung out on them, cut off by their doctors, and turn to deadly Heroin.

Obviously I misinterpreted this line, and the gist of several that came before.

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Modern medicine is great for surgeries, but pretty awful when it comes to getting folks off pain med addictions. 

Every time I see people mention pain meds, it's in the same sentence as getting off them.  I guess I just read things incorrectly.
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« Reply #572 on: April 23, 2017, 04:46:02 pm »
Obviously I misinterpreted this line, and the gist of several that came before.

Every time I see people mention pain meds, it's in the same sentence as getting off them.  I guess I just read things incorrectly.
I had my own personal experience with legitimate pain meds. I decided to try getting off, BEFORE my Doctor or PA even hinted about it.

I find the side effects of the drugs, to be worse than the pain. So for several subsequent surgeries, I got off the drugs asap, as in 2 days or less.

So I restate, I do NOT think our medical professionals do a very good job, managing pain meds.

We have a family friend, and their son died from the Tylenol in his pain meds. Did he REALLY need those pills, for years?
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« Reply #573 on: April 23, 2017, 05:03:44 pm »
I good place to start understanding the Opioid issue would be to knock off the idea that everybody who takes them needs to get off them.  There are people with chronic conditions that don't respond to other medications.

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True,but people need to wake up to the FACT that pain is your friend. It reminds you that you are injured so you don't do something stupid to make the injury worse. Yes,there are levels of pain that nobody can deal with. I call them the "I want my mama!" pain level. I've been there myself,and when you are there,you will take anything you can get your hands on. I have been there myself,but don't worry about recognizing it if you ever get there. You'll know.

BUT.....,pretty much anything below that level can be dealt with and the fewer downs you take for pain the longer you will live. People with chronic pain that take opioids on a daily basis may be managing their pain,but they are also weakening their heart and guaranteeing themselves a early death.  The ironic part about this is the more of them you take and the longer you take them,the less effective they are at easing pain,so you end up taking more to get less pain relief and to feed the monkey on your back. You have taken a bad problem,and made it worse.

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« Reply #574 on: April 23, 2017, 05:05:28 pm »
An article I read said she was living in a trailer park with her husband.  Not jumping to conclusions without evidence, but was he part of her problem?  Could he not work and provide them a home? 

Actually, her husband was the one working ... albeit at Walmart, but he was the one with a paying job.
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« Reply #575 on: April 23, 2017, 05:09:27 pm »
I had my own personal experience with legitimate pain meds. I decided to try getting off, BEFORE my Doctor or PA even hinted about it.

I find the side effects of the drugs, to be worse than the pain. So for several subsequent surgeries, I got off the drugs asap, as in 2 days or less.

So I restate, I do NOT think our medical professionals do a very good job, managing pain meds.

We have a family friend, and their son died from the Tylenol in his pain meds. Did he REALLY need those pills, for years?
I had hip surgery this time last year. I have a prescription for pain meds. I will take maybe one every month or so, the rest of the time it is either Advil or "suck it up buttercup". I saw what my uncle went through 30 years ago for a shattered knee. Not happening to this bright eyed boy.
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« Reply #576 on: April 23, 2017, 05:09:28 pm »
I have no idea, where you got the idea that "everybody who takes them needs to get off."

But people that no longer need them, get strung out on them, cut off by their doctors, and turn to deadly Heroin.

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Heroin is no more deadly that most other drugs. What makes it so dangerous is varying purity. Even people who have been junkies for decades will step off the planet if they buy a batch that is pretty much uncut. This is why junkies in the Netherlands almost never OD,and why most of them hold jobs. The purity of the free heroin they get from the government is consistent,so they know how much to take and still be able to function. No "hot shots".
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« Reply #577 on: April 23, 2017, 05:09:58 pm »
So I restate, I do NOT think our medical professionals do a very good job, managing pain meds.

We have a family friend, and their son died from the Tylenol in his pain meds. Did he REALLY need those pills, for years?

Tylenol's active ingredient, Acetaminophen, has been proven to destroy the liver.  Many reports from a few years ago suggested Tylenol should be taken off the market as it would not receive FDA approval based on what is known today.

But that "crusade" went nowhere.  Except ... I don't let Tylenol anywhere near anyone in my family.

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« Reply #578 on: April 23, 2017, 05:16:13 pm »
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Heroin is no more deadly that most other drugs. What makes it so dangerous is varying purity. Even people who have been junkies for decades will step off the planet if they buy a batch that is pretty much uncut. This is why junkies in the Netherlands almost never OD,and why most of them hold jobs. The purity of the free heroin they get from the government is consistent,so they know how much to take and still be able to function. No "hot shots".
I understand the purity aspect. That is what I meant to convey re. Joplin and Hendrix. When I say "deadly" I simply mean the risk of extra strong strength.

The strongest drugs in my own background were marijuana, finished about 40 yrs. ago, and beer finished over 23 yrs. ago.

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« Reply #579 on: April 23, 2017, 05:23:48 pm »
I don't think she made great money at residuals or gigs, but it seems she should have had enough to not be living in a trailer park in small town Indiana. That tends to hint at a substance abuse problem.
Or she got some seriously raw deals along the way.
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« Reply #580 on: April 23, 2017, 05:30:53 pm »
I had my own personal experience with legitimate pain meds. I decided to try getting off, BEFORE my Doctor or PA even hinted about it.

I find the side effects of the drugs, to be worse than the pain. So for several subsequent surgeries, I got off the drugs asap, as in 2 days or less.

So I restate, I do NOT think our medical professionals do a very good job, managing pain meds.

We have a family friend, and their son died from the Tylenol in his pain meds. Did he REALLY need those pills, for years?

Drs. could do better at managing pain.  Government getting involved, as they've been doing more and more, is arguably worse with their one-size-fits-all solutions.  There are people with legitimate reasons for taking some of these long term, and they are the easiest marks for crusaders to hit.

Just about every bad idea perpetrated on the American people started, at one point, with someone saying "there ought to be a law!" 

This argument is really for another thread.  This is Obits, where we pay some respect to those who just passed.
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« Reply #581 on: April 23, 2017, 05:38:34 pm »
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True,but people need to wake up to the FACT that pain is your friend. It reminds you that you are injured so you don't do something stupid to make the injury worse. Yes,there are levels of pain that nobody can deal with. I call them the "I want my mama!" pain level. I've been there myself,and when you are there,you will take anything you can get your hands on. I have been there myself,but don't worry about recognizing it if you ever get there. You'll know.

BUT.....,pretty much anything below that level can be dealt with and the fewer downs you take for pain the longer you will live. People with chronic pain that take opioids on a daily basis may be managing their pain,but they are also weakening their heart and guaranteeing themselves a early death.  The ironic part about this is the more of them you take and the longer you take them,the less effective they are at easing pain,so you end up taking more to get less pain relief and to feed the monkey on your back. You have taken a bad problem,and made it worse.
I pretty much agree with all that. Least effective dose, and the basic question: "Can I handle this? Is this worse than when....?"
Practice makes you more resistant, imho, and someone who studied that would probably see endorphin production at higher levels in people who don't often use pain killers for relief of relatively minor pain.
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Re: Obituaries for 2017
« Reply #582 on: April 23, 2017, 08:25:58 pm »
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True,but people need to wake up to the FACT that pain is your friend. It reminds you that you are injured so you don't do something stupid to make the injury worse. Yes,there are levels of pain that nobody can deal with. I call them the "I want my mama!" pain level. I've been there myself,and when you are there,you will take anything you can get your hands on. I have been there myself,but don't worry about recognizing it if you ever get there. You'll know.

BUT.....,pretty much anything below that level can be dealt with and the fewer downs you take for pain the longer you will live. People with chronic pain that take opioids on a daily basis may be managing their pain,but they are also weakening their heart and guaranteeing themselves a early death.  The ironic part about this is the more of them you take and the longer you take them,the less effective they are at easing pain,so you end up taking more to get less pain relief and to feed the monkey on your back. You have taken a bad problem,and made it worse.

I hear you. Yes, pain indicates something is wrong, but not all ailments can be fixed or diagnosed, nor can the medical profession always find what's causing the pain. I've always been one that has felt; don't treat the symptom, but find out what is causing the symptom and fix it. Irrectractable relentless pain where people will do anything to get some relief exists. Over time our bodies build up a resistance to some pain meds and I've seen people in so much pain that morphine, methadone and tramadol didn't touch it.  It's a horrible thing to watch. Pain management is a joke.  The doctors prescribe anything and everything and then send the patient on their way and if what the prescribe doesn't work, they'll be happy to Let the patient suffer and see the patient in 6-8 weeks and prescribe something different ... or refuse to prescribe anything else because they don't believe the patient or they've run out of options.


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« Reply #583 on: April 23, 2017, 09:33:04 pm »

The strongest drugs in my own background were marijuana, finished about 40 yrs. ago, and beer finished over 23 yrs. ago.

Caffeine is now my drug of choice.

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I did them ALL. Even the ones I didn't enjoy I did a second time to make sure. My pot smoking ended years ago when I came down with COPD from inhaling mold and mildew spoors while cutting away and replacing rotten wood and carpet in my house. Damn near died. I'd black out with no warning while trying to walk to the truck,and wake up some time later laying out in the yard. Guess when I quit smoking cigarettes,too.

Quit  drinking a couple of years before that,and now I have pretty much given up on coffee. I drink green tea. Lot less caffeine and easier on the system.

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« Reply #584 on: April 23, 2017, 09:38:47 pm »
I pretty much agree with all that. Least effective dose, and the basic question: "Can I handle this? Is this worse than when....?"
Practice makes you more resistant, imho, and someone who studied that would probably see endorphin production at higher levels in people who don't often use pain killers for relief of relatively minor pain.

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I plead "Guilty" to the endorphin thing. Not saying I don't feel pain when I am injured,but I seem to be able to handle it better than most people. Can't take credit for that. It's something you are born with or not born with,but I honestly think MOST people can "teach" themselves to become adjusted to increasing levels of pain with less stress by simply accepting it's there and dealing with it.

Some people are hyper-sensitive to pain,and there's not much they can do to change that. Everybody has their own tolerance level,and none of us can tell someone else what they can deal with and what they can't deal with.
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« Reply #585 on: April 23, 2017, 09:40:16 pm »
I think there are a helluva lot of people in the entertainment industry that don't have a happy life. Not what I consider a happy life. Even if they make the money.

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« Reply #586 on: April 23, 2017, 09:54:23 pm »
@Smokin Joe

I plead "Guilty" to the endorphin thing. Not saying I don't feel pain when I am injured,but I seem to be able to handle it better than most people. Can't take credit for that. It's something you are born with or not born with,but I honestly think MOST people can "teach" themselves to become adjusted to increasing levels of pain with less stress by simply accepting it's there and dealing with it.
I do that. Okay, it hurts. Now what? Or I'm busy, get a minor injury, say 'ouch' and go on--after all, I'm busy. Later, it will ache, and I'll wonder how in the hell I did that? So I actually think focusing on it or not makes a difference, too, but either that is inborn or learned early (I think) and people may or may not be able to change focus as they get older.
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Some people are hyper-sensitive to pain,and there's not much they can do to change that. Everybody has their own tolerance level,and none of us can tell someone else what they can deal with and what they can't deal with.
Yep. I'm not belittling anyone for hurting, not everyone can handle the same amount or even the same type of pain. Some people hurt when they get cut, I rarely do. Other things I feel more. It's different for everyone, but I think we have the expectation that we are supposed to be completely pain free, and I just don't see that as realistic, especially as I get older. Besides, if it didn't hurt, I'd never have an excuse to be grumpy!  :laugh:
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« Reply #587 on: April 24, 2017, 03:50:22 am »
I think there are a helluva lot of people in the entertainment industry that don't have a happy life. Not what I consider a happy life. Even if they make the money.

RIP Erin.

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How can they be  happy when they spend so much time convincing themselves they are someone else so they can play a role that they have forgotten who THEY are?
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« Reply #588 on: April 24, 2017, 03:54:47 am »
I do that. Okay, it hurts. Now what? Or I'm busy, get a minor injury, say 'ouch' and go on--after all, I'm busy. Later, it will ache, and I'll wonder how in the hell I did that? So I actually think focusing on it or not makes a difference, too, but either that is inborn or learned early (I think) and people may or may not be able to change focus as they get older.Yep. I'm not belittling anyone for hurting, not everyone can handle the same amount or even the same type of pain. Some people hurt when they get cut, I rarely do. Other things I feel more. It's different for everyone, but I think we have the expectation that we are supposed to be completely pain free, and I just don't see that as realistic, especially as I get older. Besides, if it didn't hurt, I'd never have an excuse to be grumpy!  :laugh:

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I agree.  I've been able to deal with and dismiss almost every injury or pain I have ever had. The exception that stands out like a lighthouse on a stormy beach is a kidney stone. That's a level of pain you have to experience to believe. If there is anything that hurts more than that,I don't even want to hear rumors about it.
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« Reply #589 on: April 24, 2017, 04:46:22 am »
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by Ramesh Ponnuru April 23, 2017 3:05 PM



Kate O’Beirne was part of National Review’s world before she joined the staff. When she became the magazine’s Washington editor in 1995 her resume already included stints at Senator Jim Buckley’s office, the Reagan administration, and the Heritage Foundation. She served NR in that position for eleven years and then became president of National Review Institute for six more.

 She brought a witty and well-informed conservatism to a national television audience as well through weekly appearances on CNN’s marquee political talk show “Capital Gang.” Conservatives were outnumbered there as on cable news generally at that time, but it never seemed that way as long as she was on.

 Both her “Bread and Circuses” column for NR and her television commentary were marked by a rare combination of a deep interest in conservative policy, psychological insight, and common sense. Many of those same qualities put her advice — on politics, editorials, careers, and personal matters — in high demand.

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« Reply #590 on: April 24, 2017, 09:21:08 am »

Kate Walsh O’Beirne R.I.P.


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She died from cancer,and since there was mention of her being a chain-smoker and it was related to her death,I am assuming it was lung cancer.
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« Reply #591 on: April 24, 2017, 09:28:00 am »
Character still matters.  It always matters.

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« Reply #592 on: April 24, 2017, 09:47:49 am »
When my late father worked in TV in St. Louis Erin came to town on a promotional tour. She and my sister had dinner together.
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« Reply #593 on: April 24, 2017, 10:56:29 am »
Interesting article on Fox News Entertainment about Erin Moran.....

http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2017/04/24/erin-morans-final-days-fellow-former-child-stars-were-trying-to-help.html

Thank you for the link.  I did hear about Paul Petersen's support and advocacy group for former child actors, and I understand the group does good work. It's just too bad they couldn't save Erin Moran.  But all the resources and support in the world can't save a person if he or she doesn't want to be saved.

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« Reply #594 on: April 24, 2017, 11:00:00 am »
Thank you for the link.  I did hear about Paul Petersen's support and advocacy group for former child actors, and I understand the group does good work. It's just too bad they couldn't save Erin Moran.  But all the resources and support in the world can't save a person if he or she doesn't want to be saved.

Yes........... it sounds like there were multiple people reaching out to her and trying to help.

But you are absolutely correct.  If she didn't want to be saved, there was nothing anyone else could do.

A very sad situation, in any case......
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« Reply #595 on: April 24, 2017, 11:05:28 am »
When my late father worked in TV in St. Louis Erin came to town on a promotional tour. She and my sister had dinner together.

How many years ago was this?  What was she like then?

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« Reply #596 on: April 24, 2017, 11:10:48 am »
It was when Happy Days was on TV (that was 1974-84), so that dinner was probably around 1977-78, when my sister still was in high school. She and Erin were around the same age. They got along well - as I recall, my sister said she was very nice and friendly.
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« Reply #597 on: April 24, 2017, 11:12:31 am »
It was when Happy Days was on TV (that was 1974-84), so that dinner was probably around 1977-78, when my sister still was in high school. She and Erin were around the same age. They got along well - as I recall, my sister said she was very nice and friendly.

It sounds like her troubles started after then end of her two shows.
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« Reply #598 on: April 24, 2017, 11:16:49 am »
From the Telegraph (U.K.):
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In the wake of Moran’s death (Mail Online claimed she died of a suspected heroin overdose in her mother-in-law’s trailer, but an official autopsy is still pending), it was reported that many former child stars had reached out to the Happy Days star in recent weeks. Fonz actor Henry Winkler had too, in 2012, reportedly sought out a role for Moran on the Netflix reboot of Arrested Development, a comedy that also featured Scott Baio.

“Erin had friends and she knew it. Abandonment was not the issue. The perversity of human frailty is at the root of this loss, not failure,” wrote Paul Petersen, who runs the child-actor advocacy group A Minor Consideration, on Facebook. “We did our best with the resources available to us, but it was a very dark room. Some don’t find the light switch in time.”

Neighbours at the New Salisbury, Indiana trailer park she called home referred to Moran as a friendly, kind woman, who had become something of a recluse in recent months.  ...

In interviews over the years, Moran spoke of her affection for her Happy Days character, and how much she appreciated her time in the spotlight. But she also made occasional references to an underlying darkness that sometimes enveloped her, like her discomfort with Joanie Cunningham’s rapid sexualisation upon turning 15, instigated by Happy Days producers, or her depression in the wake of the sitcom’s end. She also told Sitcoms Online that she had experienced “mental and physical abuse” in her childhood, though insisted that the entertainment industry had largely treated her well.

For many actors, such close identification with just one role can become a curse, the ghost of a past that seemed to vanish as quickly as it materialised. But Moran had no such hostility, telling Pop Culture Addict that she was happy to be remembered for her sitcom role.

“When somebody accidentally calls me Joanie and they apologise, I say, ‘Don’t apologise. I wouldn’t be here otherwise.’ ”   ...
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« Reply #599 on: April 24, 2017, 11:20:10 am »
It didn't help Erin Moran that "Ritchie" went on to become on of Hollywood's top director's and the Fonz also continued for awhile on the Big Screen. 

I'm sure that didn't help her self-assessment with a half empty bottle of Jack next to her.
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