@Fantom
@beandog
@Right_in_Virginia
She's a typical passive-aggressive. She sugarcoats her anger because she believes, for whatever reason, that direct, straight-on confrontation is unacceptable. It could be that she was taught it isn't "ladylike", or maybe she simply lacks the stomach for an honest one-on-one.
It's also a power trip, which is why we see the air of superiority in her posts, and the manner of speaking which makes you think of Cruella DeVille or Gloria Swanson in "Sunset Boulevard."
It's a pity, because she might be taken seriously if she dropped the facade.
RIV isn't passive-aggressive. Her anger bleeds out of every post. She thinks you are wrong. She thinks you are too dumb to see what she sees. She think she is right and she is frustrated that she keeps explaining things to us, and keeps getting mocked for her efforts.
Does this sound familiar to you Catherine? You know anybody else like this?
I think you are an exceptionally talented writer. You express complex thoughts in easy to understand and well written posts. TBR is lucky to have writers like yourself who take time out of their busy schedule to offer their insights and opinion.
You see what I just did there? I paid you a sincere compliment and now I can tell you things you don't want to hear and I suspect you will actually listen and weigh what I have to say.
You have RIV pegged all wrong...Obstinate...Condescending...Arrogant. Sure. Those traits would be viewed as admirable if they were in defense of an opinion you agreed with. She is all these thing as are most humans. As am I. As is anyone who thinks they can psychoanalyze someone based on a few curt and defensive political posts.
RIV has a family and friends who she wants to live in a better America. She has strong opinions that she wants to share. How do I know this? I don't really, I'm assuming it because I don't think she is really that different than me, but I do base that on a couple years of arguing with her.
I said some nice things about RIV last week and I know she saw it. I didn't expect that her style of attack would change, and only she knows if she tempered her anger or not, but we have said the foulest, nastiest, shameful things to people who mostly agree America is broken...and only disagree on how to fix it.
I call on you Catherine...if you truly wanted to discuss and reach an understanding, would you have posted the same message to RIV you posted?
Let us clean up this forum and work towards a civility and discourse on the issues that TOS can only remember from 20 years ago.
You do not have to be the bigger person. There is no reason that can force you to try and understand the people who have spewed unforgivable bile...except you can.