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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #50 on: July 13, 2016, 12:14:52 pm »
Me, too. We need a counterpart thread for the ladies of the Briefing Room.
Yeah, but men already know what is wrong and makes them unattractive, well the married ones do anyways.  :whistle: Our problem is that we don't care. :smokin:

Beer guts,
Having a beer gut or having rolls of fat hanging down
Being overweight in general
Being less than 6' tall
The toilet seat thing
The which way the tp is supposed to unroll thing
The toothpaste tube thing
Not wiping the mud off our boots
Leaving said muddy boots in the middle of the floor
Leaving the socks that went in said boots elsewhere on the floor
Watching too much football (especially when this time could have been spent cleaning the boots, and doing laundry)
Not being sensitive enough (meaning is unclear and no man is ever free of this)
Not being romantic enough (also unclear so shoot for the moon you can't overdo it)
Double dipping in the salsa
Not communicating enough (talking about guns, hunting, boating, fishing, camping or anything you are remotely interested in doesn't count)
Wearing Overalls
Having a normal voice (You must either be Sam Elliot or Steve Perry, ranges in between need not inquire, high voices must be able to sing Romantic songs)

I'm sure there's a longer list out there this is just the few that rise to my mind. Needless to say men are disgusting except for Sean Connery and Johnny Depp whom women find irresistible.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #51 on: July 13, 2016, 12:15:41 pm »
Me, too. We need a counterpart thread for the ladies of the Briefing Room.

What about the transgendereds like me? Don't we get a space too?

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #52 on: July 13, 2016, 12:20:17 pm »
What about the transgendereds like me? Don't we get a space too?
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #53 on: July 13, 2016, 12:24:07 pm »
@mirraflake @sneakypete

Everything you guys say is true. I love women, talk to them all the time, and get along great, but I've not found very many I'd get involved with these days.

If they're not crazy they're devious and untrustworthy and unstable. Often all three. It mostly devolves into a dominate or be dominated situation. Between the feminism, hollywood decadence culture, and social media, alot of women today at all ages are off the rails. You practically have to be a uncaring douche to have a woman, and that's not my game.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #55 on: July 13, 2016, 12:27:16 pm »
What about the transgendereds like me? Don't we get a space too?

Get in line. We got 50 or so other gender self-identity classification safe spaces to set up too. It takes time, and this is a union shop.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #56 on: July 13, 2016, 12:28:04 pm »
Yeah, but men already know what is wrong and makes them unattractive, well the married ones do anyways.  :whistle: Our problem is that we don't care. :smokin:

Beer guts, .......

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #57 on: July 13, 2016, 12:35:27 pm »
@mirraflake @sneakypete


If they're not crazy they're devious and untrustworthy and unstable.

A recently divorced friend of mine has been hitting the dating sites. He knew things would be bad right out of the get go when 4 out of 5 women he met from matches.com- the photos they shown on the site were at least 15 years old and 25 lbs+ lighter.

I'm glad I won the wife lottery and don't  have to deal with the dating mess today. God forbid is something happened to my wife no way would I get married. I know some guys and gal who have recently found love and they are happy but it's
 rough out there  today


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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #58 on: July 13, 2016, 01:05:43 pm »

Mrs. Joe  even laughed at and agreed with that one.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #59 on: July 13, 2016, 01:08:35 pm »
A recently divorced friend of mine has been hitting the dating sites. He knew things would be bad right out of the get go when 4 out of 5 women he met from matches.com- the photos they shown on the site were at least 15 years old and 25 lbs+ lighter.

I'm glad I won the wife lottery and don't  have to deal with the dating mess today. God forbid is something happened to my wife no way would I get married. I know some guys and gal who have recently found love and they are happy but it's
 rough out there  today


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LOL! It has always been rough.
We were younger, bulletproof, and had more patience to deal with it (or the 'free T' levels were just too high to care...)

I'm glad I'm not out there in that wilderness, either.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #60 on: July 13, 2016, 01:16:18 pm »
I would never remarry...been married 46 years in just a few days and he still isn't trained...I don't have time to start over!
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #61 on: July 13, 2016, 01:17:19 pm »

@Smokin Joe

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54 Year Old Catholic City Boy Married To A Country Cowgirl

Ok,I know why you married a "Country/Protestant Girl". I had a Italian guy from NYC tell me in army basic training that he hoped to get stationed in the south because unlike Catholic girls,Protestant girls "put out". He just looked puzzled when I asked him "Where do all the little Catholics come from?"
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« Reply #62 on: July 13, 2016, 01:26:34 pm »
A recently divorced friend of mine has been hitting the dating sites. He knew things would be bad right out of the get go when 4 out of 5 women he met from matches.com- the photos they shown on the site were at least 15 years old and 25 lbs+ lighter.

I'm glad I won the wife lottery and don't  have to deal with the dating mess today. God forbid is something happened to my wife no way would I get married. I know some guys and gal who have recently found love and they are happy but it's
 rough out there  today


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I have a lot of single female friends and they generally fall into two categories; 30 somethings that are still trying to date like they did in college, choosing the guy with the jacked up truck and Ed Hardy shirt who goes clubbing every night. The problem is that doesn't translate well to an adult and they always are complaining about crappy guys.

The other category is the 40 something professional set who are type a personalities and content with their life. Most of them are real catches (hot, smart, wealthy, not crazy), but don't have time for dating games.

Sadly I can't find any of my bros to set up with any of them.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #63 on: July 13, 2016, 01:29:05 pm »
@Smokin Joe

Ok,I know why you married a "Country/Protestant Girl". I had a Italian guy from NYC tell me in army basic training that he hoped to get stationed in the south because unlike Catholic girls,Protestant girls "put out". He just looked puzzled when I asked him "Where do all the little Catholics come from?"
That tagline is from @mirraflake's post, just to clear up attribution.

 I grew up in the tidewater on a tobacco farm. My family goes back to early colonial times, and yep, I'm Catholic, but a mite older. I moved west and married a gal from an 'older family'--She's Chippewa, and her kinfolk have been around a mite longer than mine.

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He just looked puzzled when I asked him "Where do all the little Catholics come from?"

Why, good girls, of course! (not implying that there is a Catholic exclusive on 'good girls') :laugh:
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #64 on: July 13, 2016, 01:29:36 pm »


Al pretty much nailed it down tight.

A woman I have lived (for a VERY brief time) with twice was telling me a few months ago that she was having trouble with husband number 6,and just couldn't understand why she always picked the wrong men to marry.

No kidding. It had never occurred to her that maybe,JUST MAYBE,SHE might be the "floater in the punch bowl". I know this because she just looked confused when I broke out into hysterical laughter. After all,I had known her since before she married her first husband,and had lived with her twice,too. Beautiful woman in her late 50's that can still wear the same size clothes she was wearing in high school when she was a majorette with the marching band,but she absolutely destroys the old theory that only intelligent people can be crazy. Apparently no understanding at all is necessary.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #65 on: July 13, 2016, 01:33:28 pm »
@mirraflake @sneakypete



If they're not crazy they're devious and untrustworthy and unstable. Often all three. It mostly devolves into a dominate or be dominated situation.

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #66 on: July 13, 2016, 01:36:42 pm »
We are bashing the women here about not being catches but today's men are not anything to drool over.

Any woman or man who does not do a criminal, marriage record  and financial background check on their  latest squeeze is a fool. $25 internet anonymous background check is cheap insurance before things get hot and heavy.
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« Reply #67 on: July 13, 2016, 01:41:43 pm »
@Smokin Joe

Ok,I know why you married a "Country/Protestant Girl". I had a Italian guy from NYC tell me in army basic training that he hoped to get stationed in the south because unlike Catholic girls,Protestant girls "put out". He just looked puzzled when I asked him "Where do all the little Catholics come from?"

My wife is also Catholic and never wanted children-nor did I .  Her Italian-Catholic  mom basically told her she was going to hell for not having kids.
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« Reply #68 on: July 13, 2016, 01:43:03 pm »
... I know some guys and gal who have recently found love and they are happy but it's
 rough out there  today

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They are either faking it because they can't admit to failure again,or they are lucky,lucky people. The world is a different place than it was to prior to the 1960's. Most people that got married back then had known who they were marrying since at least the 1st grade,and knew the families they came from. When they did get married,they got married with the idea that "this is for life",and both understood there were going to be compromises that had to be made in order to live peacefully and happy.

Not so today. Practically everybody over 25 has been married at least once,and survived several shack jobs. They usually don't really know the people they are shacking up with or marrying,and are doing so based on how attractive they are and how much money they make. Character never even comes into the discussion.

The end result is that practically everybody on those dating boards is a practiced liar with a chip on their shoulders more ready to "win" the first argument than they are to reach understanding with each other.

Looking great naked or with clothes on as a trophy is nice,but that ain't what you have to live with. Character,or the lack of it is what is important because no one lacking in character can be trusted and no one that can't be trusted will ever be a lifemate.
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« Reply #69 on: July 13, 2016, 01:48:59 pm »
We are bashing the women here about not being catches but today's men are not anything to drool over.

Any woman or man who does not do a criminal, marriage record  and financial background check on their  latest squeeze is a fool. $25 internet anonymous background check is cheap insurance before things get hot and heavy.

Very true. In my late 40's now and never married, have pretty much seen as much as I want to. Bottom line is society has devolved, particularly in the relationship arena, men and women both. Even people I've known since childhood just don't have the moral structure and fortitude they used to. It's so easy to get lax, and the younger generation has almost no moral upbringing at all in many cases.

Things have changed drastically in the dating scene in just 10 years. Attitudes are totally different, people have become very imbalanced and ungrounded. Lots more self-absorbed, opportunistic behavior and unrealistic expectations than I've ever seen. I hardly feel like I'm missing out on much.
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« Reply #70 on: July 13, 2016, 01:50:13 pm »
What about the transgendereds like me? Don't we get a space too?

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« Reply #71 on: July 13, 2016, 01:50:53 pm »

Looking great naked or with clothes on as a trophy is nice,but that ain't what you have to live with. Character,or the lack of it is what is important because no one lacking in character can be trusted and no one that can't be trusted will ever be a lifemate.
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Then, if you have decided to tie the knot, keep separate checking accounts and credit cards. You will avoid more hassles that way.
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« Reply #72 on: July 13, 2016, 01:56:15 pm »
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« Reply #73 on: July 13, 2016, 01:58:01 pm »
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« Reply #74 on: July 13, 2016, 02:03:57 pm »

Things have changed drastically in the dating scene in just 10 years. Attitudes are totally different, people have become very imbalanced and ungrounded. Lots more self-absorbed, opportunistic behavior and unrealistic expectations than I've ever seen. I hardly feel like I'm missing out on much.

The last woman I lived with was by accident. We worked at the same place,she lived along the route I had to travel,and she didn't like riding the bus. She asked me one day if I would give her a ride home,and I said "Sure!'

We got to her apartment and when I stopped,she asked me if she could go home with me for the night. Since I already knew she was both intelligent and a hard worker,AND because she had red hair and green eyes,I said "You betcha! I can do that!"

The next afternoon when I stopped to drop her off at her apartment,she asked if to wait a minutes,so I did. Out she comes with her suitcase,and tosses it into the back of my truck,and gets into the cab and says "Let's go." I wasn't dating anyone and I liked her,so I just figured,"Why not? It will last until it doesn't,and no hard feelings when she leaves."

One day a couple of months later she informs out out of the blue that "When we get married we won't have sex so often."

Stunned,since I didn't even know we were engaged,I said something clever like "Uhhhhh,say WHAT?"

She repeats what I thought I heard her say the first time,and I tell her something along the line of "Good thing we are not going to get married in that case,huh?",and I definitely remember telling her "Here is a little tech tip you might find useful the next time this sort of thing pops into your mind,You need to do some work to your sales technique because promising a man LESS sex is NOT the way to go about getting one to marry you,and you need to start looking for another place to live."

A week later she was living with another woman we worked with,and a month or so later she was living with another guy we worked with. I have no idea what she said to him or he said to her,but it wasn't long before they were married.

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« Reply #76 on: July 13, 2016, 02:33:08 pm »
I would never remarry...been married 46 years in just a few days and he still isn't trained...I don't have time to start over!

In my case it's 47 1/2 years and I'll never be trained!
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« Reply #77 on: July 13, 2016, 03:04:15 pm »
In my case it's 47 1/2 years and I'll never be trained!

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« Reply #78 on: July 13, 2016, 03:09:30 pm »
Then, if you have decided to tie the knot, keep separate checking accounts and credit cards. You will avoid more hassles that way.

I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.
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« Reply #79 on: July 13, 2016, 03:14:30 pm »
I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.
Actually, it isn't separate. Either spouse can write checks on either account, or not. But one uses one and the other the other, for bookkeeping purposes. When times get lean, it can save on trouble not having two people writing checks out of one account. Ditto credit cards. At all times, you know exactly where the money stands.

Considering finances can be a heck of a bone of contention, it's a plan to stay married.
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« Reply #80 on: July 13, 2016, 03:18:35 pm »
Actually, it isn't separate. Either spouse can write checks on either account, or not. But one uses one and the other the other, for bookkeeping purposes.

Okay, that I understand and we do ourselves.  But it is a single account with several different buckets for tracking and specific saving plans.

My In-Law's money were truly separate and was a major source of contention and arguements for 62 years and created problems even after her death.
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« Reply #81 on: July 13, 2016, 03:20:35 pm »
I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.

I agree with @Smokin Joe .  In addition, my wife and I had been writing our own checks for our own bills for years before we got married (we were about 50 when we got married) and we were used to it.  Since we both have an income, the easiest thing to do was just split up the bills and each handle our agreed responsibilities.  That way, nothing gets paid twice and nothing falls through the cracks.  And we both have signing authority on each others' accounts.
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« Reply #82 on: July 13, 2016, 03:45:03 pm »
I never understood the idea of being married and believing money was separate for each.  Seems like a plan to not be married, eventually.

My wife and I have separate checking and saving accounts and credit cards. We both make about the same money. One month she pays all the bills, the next month I do.

We were married later in life mid 30's..works for us. We both prefer it that way.

PS we can sign each others checks.

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« Reply #83 on: July 14, 2016, 11:04:07 pm »
I have a lot of single female friends and they generally fall into two categories; 30 somethings that are still trying to date like they did in college, choosing the guy with the jacked up truck and Ed Hardy shirt who goes clubbing every night. The problem is that doesn't translate well to an adult and they always are complaining about crappy guys.

The other category is the 40 something professional set who are type a personalities and content with their life. Most of them are real catches (hot, smart, wealthy, not crazy), but don't have time for dating games.

Sadly I can't find any of my bros to set up with any of them.
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« Reply #84 on: July 14, 2016, 11:12:23 pm »
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Aren't you around the Dallas area?

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« Reply #85 on: July 15, 2016, 12:53:10 am »
Aren't you around the Dallas area?
I was half-kidding. Although I suppose, if there are any interested in long-distance relationships, I suppose I'd consider it. It's not like I'm surrounded by eligible bachelorettes where I'm at here in upstate NY.
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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #86 on: July 15, 2016, 02:18:09 pm »
We are bashing the women here about not being catches but today's men are not anything to drool over.

Any woman or man who does not do a criminal, marriage record  and financial background check on their  latest squeeze is a fool. $25 internet anonymous background check is cheap insurance before things get hot and heavy.

Heck, a friend of mine waited too long to do a Google search.  Would have saved her the heartbreak of finding the news stories of him being wanted for felony domestic assault with a deadly weapon, etc.
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« Reply #87 on: July 25, 2016, 12:53:19 pm »
Heck, a friend of mine waited too long to do a Google search.  Would have saved her the heartbreak of finding the news stories of him being wanted for felony domestic assault with a deadly weapon, etc.

Good grief. I have (had) a friend that's in the same boat; however, she insists on continuing the relationship! 

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« Reply #88 on: July 25, 2016, 01:06:13 pm »


I refuse to be dominated by anyone at anytime and in any place...

Then you don't know what the hell fun is....


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« Reply #89 on: July 25, 2016, 01:09:49 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



Are we sure that's not a dude?

Speaking of turnoffs....

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Re: What Men Find Most Unattractive In Women
« Reply #90 on: July 25, 2016, 05:09:16 pm »
I'm not exaggerating or lied what I said. It's true.

When I was 17 back in the late 70's  I worked at my uncles gas station.  I was playing 2 sports in HS and pumping iron and wore tight jeans and was a damn good looking kid for 17.

You would not believe what women would say or do.  The first week I worked there was a woman in her late 30 or early 40's who said after I pumper her gas and went up to her window for payment "How about a kiss?"   And that was mild. I was offered straight out sex numerous times by women 30, 40, 50 and 60+ years old.

This trend you see of older women having sex with men <18 is nothing new. The only difference today is cell phones, photos and text messages are hanging these women.

Trust me when I say this..just because you may have never done these things many many many other women have. it's not Boys will be boys but girls will be girls.

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It's probably off-topic for this board...but, what the hey.

What this proves, is the reality of age-old patters of human pairing.  Old/young.  Young/old.

Young men are sex machines.  They'd screw the crack of Dawn.  A few wrinkles and cellulite and even stretchmarks...isn't enough to dissuade.

It's The Graduate.  And I've seen the truth of that, over and over.  When I was a kid working on a golf course, one of the preppie college sophmores was taken, I mean OBSESSED, with a woman working in the front office of the resort which owned the course.  This was a woman 32 years old, with a ten-year-old son.

I myself later had a similar situation...a woman about twelve years older than I, separated from her husband, two kids...threw herself my way.  I don't know if it's to my shame or my credit, but I didn't bite the bait.

Young boys are like that.  They're driven; and older women, who are past their fear and are in fact feeling the fear of unsatisfied LUST...they match, mostly.

Older men...and young females.  Another natural match.  With a middle-aged man, the fires are banked somewhat.  The newness is off.  Control has been learned.  So has the needs of a partner.

Just the thing for a young woman afraid of the stories of bleeding, pain and pregnancy.  And of two-pump chumps who finish off before even getting started.

There was a time when this was, if not sanctioned, at least recognized.  But these days women are told to get with other women; and old men are just castigated and rejected.  And young males?  Gelded psychologically, if not actually...a generation of Pajama BoyZ, taught how much more wonderful is homosexual sodomy, and to be ashamed of desiring to pair off with a female...a REAL female, not a female-for-a-day with a bigger penis than they have...

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« Reply #91 on: July 25, 2016, 05:25:59 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



That just screams get my "Hello Kitty" Ball Gag!
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« Reply #92 on: July 25, 2016, 05:34:40 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



But can she make a sammich?

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« Reply #93 on: July 25, 2016, 07:40:11 pm »
Then you don't know what the hell fun is....



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« Reply #94 on: July 31, 2016, 02:50:14 pm »
Not all feminist are bad.  My wife is 60's and 70's 2nd wave feminist-equal pay, right to vote kinda gal. She  is pro choice and has no problem with gay rights but is conservative to the core everywhere else, small gov't, pro 2nd amend, close the borders, strong military, low taxes, wants major tort reform etc etc.

There are many conservative women like her...women who look upon themselves as conservatives rather than liberals even though they are pro choice.

My wife rarely brings up politics-does not interest her..she has her horses that is her life.

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I pretty much converted my wife into supporting conservative pols, but you have  a good point...expecting your significant other to agree with you on every issue is probably impossible.
 When I started going with her she was a regular Democrat voter.  Now she rabidly dislikes most Dem pols. You should see her go off on Hillary.  I usually don't hear that kind of language out of her.
My wife is still pro choice on abortion but against partial birth abortion. I don't try to argue with her about it, she's stubborn as a mule.
But the fact is I have her voting for pols who are almost all entirely pro-life.
At any rate, she balances out my many faults ..........(which I won't list here...would take too much time).