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Reason by  Lenore Skenazy 10.16.2025

Pennsylvania’s “Reasonable Independence for Children” bill pushes back on overzealous child neglect laws.

When single mom of two and home health aide Alice (a pseudonym) needed to run a brief errand, she tasked her 13-year-old brother (whom she is also the caretaker for) with babysitting her nearly 1-year-old child. For this, she was placed on the state's child abuse registry.

Mariel Mussack, an attorney with Community Legal Services, told Alice's story during testimony before the Pennsylvania House Children and Youth Committee in favor of H.B. 1873—known as Reasonable Independence for Children—on October 6. Similar bills have been passed in 11 states to date, clarifying that neglect is when a parent puts their child in obvious, serious danger, not anytime they simply take their eyes off of them.

As in most of the other states, the Pennsylvania bill has bipartisan sponsors: Rep. Jeanne McNeill (D–Whitehall), who is majority chair of the committee, Rep. Rick Krajewski (D–Philadelphia), and Rep. David Zimmerman (R–Reinholds). Krajewski opened the hearing by noting that he'd grown up with a single mom who worked two or three jobs, and therefore, he had to get himself to school and help care for his younger sister. "It really does chill me to think that, in the eyes of our state statutes, that could be seen as neglect," Krajewski said.

Zimmerman recalled growing up on a farm. "We'd be gone all day," he said. "And we really would look out for each other."

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #1 on: October 17, 2025, 03:35:08 pm »
Social Serpents run wild.

They attack people who would never suspect they are outside 'guidelines' that are not codified anywhere, and are often arbitrary.

But the meth heads across town with the three year old sitting in their own feces in a closet will never see them.
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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #2 on: October 17, 2025, 03:45:58 pm »
They threw a lady in jail for letting her kid walk to school in Alabama or something.

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #3 on: October 17, 2025, 05:32:44 pm »
This is insane. I suspect quite a few of us picked up babysitting money, beginning age 12 or so.

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #4 on: October 17, 2025, 07:34:44 pm »
This is insane. I suspect quite a few of us picked up babysitting money, beginning age 12 or so.


I know I did. And watched over my two little brothers prior to that.

Maybe these kids aren't as mature and responsible as we were back in the day?

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #5 on: October 17, 2025, 07:36:16 pm »

I know I did. And watched over my two little brothers prior to that.

Maybe these kids aren't as mature and responsible as we were back in the day?

First time I saw an NES, I was babysitting at a neighbor's house, i must have been in 7th or 8th grade.

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #6 on: October 17, 2025, 08:04:17 pm »
First time I saw an NES, I was babysitting at a neighbor's house, i must have been in 7th or 8th grade.



Need a little help. What is a NES?

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #7 on: October 17, 2025, 08:36:34 pm »
They threw a lady in jail for letting her kid walk to school in Alabama or something.

That was here, in Maryland.  Kids were in Montgomery county, limo lib bedroom of Fed DC workers.
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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #8 on: October 17, 2025, 09:33:47 pm »
Yet a 5 year old can "change" it's gender without any problem.   :shrug:

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2025, 09:42:53 pm »
This is insane. I suspect quite a few of us picked up babysitting money, beginning age 12 or so.

You Betcha...I was babysitting my younger brothers and sister...changing diapers, making formula etc...I even babysat for our neighbors to earn some money...
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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #10 on: October 17, 2025, 10:04:49 pm »


Need a little help. What is a NES?

Nintendo Entertainment System. 1988 or so. Blew everything else out of the water.

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Re: Mom Placed on Child Abuse Registry for Letting 13-Year-Old Babysit
« Reply #11 on: October 17, 2025, 11:31:16 pm »
Nintendo Entertainment System. 1988 or so. Blew everything else out of the water.
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