I'm female. I don't have children. And I couldn't care less about what Vance said.
Make of that what you will.
What I make of that is that you already are committed to voting for Trump/Vance, and therefore nothing he says at this point really matters. FWIW, I kind of share your POV regarding the crazy cat lady aspect of this. Politically, it's a very stupid comment to have made, but ultimately irrelevant to what he'd do as VP or President so it wouldn't impact my vote.
What did bother me a lot more than that was his clear preference for more direct government benefits paid to married couples, and presumably to those with children as well. That's the kind of big-spending populist item that
Democrats always supported. If you want to increase the standard deduction for kids, that's fine, because that only helps those who are actually paying federal income taxes. But
more government handout to people when we're already in massive debt? No effing way.