@catfish1957
They win by default BECAUSE we don't like to argue.
They win by default because you cannot punch them in the mouth, like you would a guy.
Had a girl once, total out of this world drama queen with all of her friends and her family, and her biggest goal in life was to be the victim. "I am such a wonderful person, but everyone is mean to me." It took a while to figure out what she was doing? Men have logic. Women have emotions. Hard to figure out what is going on sometimes.
She would get furiously mad out of the blue, start a fight with me saying the most incredibly mean and insulting things she could think of. The she would come really close to me, hit me with a zinger, and then tilt her head back sort of to the side basically offering me a clean shot. She 'wanted' me to hit her, so she could show off to her friends. And they would all offer condolences and take care of her etc.
Her entire goal during our short relationship was to goad me into hitting her. She would have LOVED it. Finally she can be the poor abused woman suffering through a rocky relationship. She wanted this more than anything. I got the hell away from that nutjob and never looked back. She never got me. But she wanted to.
But yes. The reason women win most arguments is because most of the time the guy doesn't really give a shit and you cannot smack them when they get out of control. I would put up with some bullshit than go to jail.
