That's the truth of it.
No, no it's not
@Sanguine Not "playing romance games" on the job is a bit player in the harassment games.
In today's workplace it's not just pursuing romance that's verboten, it's anything that makes a female "uncomfortable". And this is ever changing and includes jokes (even ones overheard), photos on display (imagine that during WWII), glances, tone of voice, any touch, any form of "creepiness", being left out of a meeting, being included in a meeting.
Today's workplace is a madhouse. And this #metoo
--- with no statute of limitations and no personal responsibilities --- has made it worse.