Confident in life and your job not just asking for date. Women hate whiners and complainers.
Yes, this. It does not mean that you are confident you won't strike out/ be rejected. That happens
all the time. It means being confident in yourself that you don't look like this woman's say-so will make or break your life. It's not confidence, but rather a lack of desperation.
Now your issue may very well be that you live in an area with too few women. But it's not going to do you any good to complain about that if you're not willing to move.
You are getting rejected for 3 reasons and only 3 reasons.
1. You are asking out girls out your league Example: You are a 5 asking a 10 out for date. Ain't going to happen.
2. You are saying something that creeps them out so bad they run away
3. Your personality is so bad it's cringeworthy
Just a bit harsh there,
@mirraflake. Lack of confidence can be a killer too.
I told you what I would do last year when this was brought up. Ask a very close female friend, not male, what you are doing to drive girls away and rejecting you.
This is true. Also...hit the gym or take up a sport/activity that gets you in good shape. That will impact your self-esteem/confidence with the opposite sex, and forgetting the direct effect on how you look, that additional confidence will do
wonders for you. Seriously.
Only other advice I can give is kind of based off...dating humor, but it actually works. "Go Ugly Early" and "Big girls need lovin' too." What I mean here is that if you're
really striking out a lot, then kind of forget the whole "looking for love" thing, and just look for any girl to spend some time with you. Just to talk, or watch movies, whatever. Toss physical attractiveness out the window completely, and just start with companion ship. If only to get you more confident in talking to women.