What a terrible thing for his family, especially his children, to have to endure right now! It really pisses me off to see people bring innocent children into the world and THEN decide that maybe the life they are leading is "a lie". It really screws the kids up!
I guess it gets to me so much because that happened to a friend of mine. Her and her husband waited nine years to have children, and then when they had two toddlers - he decides he doesn't want to be married anymore. The kids are grown now and totally screwed up, raised by a single mother and an absent father. I have a few gay friends that tell me it is very common for "married" men to frequent the gay bars where they hang out. Make up your mind before you bring children into the world people!!!