Agreed. I tried to watch in the most objective frame of mind I could. Fact is, Trump made a lot of extremely valid points. Maybe he was "rattled" but that doesn't make his points invalid. 
Good points. I think there are two aspects of traditional debating.... One that which relies on the nuts and bolts of the art, and is scored like a sporting event. On those merits Harris clearly won.
OTOH, it his hard to enumerate the intangibles and side bar which has not only debate moderators who skew the process and put their finger on the scale, but this is not a traditional college debate with no pre-existing narratives.
Pre-existing in that there is a huge part of America that realizes MSM bias, and knows how the left works their tactics to their advantage, at all cost. I think America also realizes that style does not trump substance when it comes to people's well being, safety, and financial security.
This might be an example like lawfare, where people don't like falsely attacking an opponent for pure political gain. I was amazed how Trump's poll numbers went up 3 points after his mug shot. The sleazy dims didn't see that coming, and this just might be a repeat.