A old Roman's adage (paraphrased) resonates loudly,"Infinitely better the leader be feared rather than loved."
After 3+ years, it's plain that Trump craves love (adulation, awe, flattery, praise) predictable of the narcissist.
Yet had he radiated fear in the heads/hearts of his adversaries, incidents like this would never have occurred.
Moreover, most of his enemies would have dashed for the exits the day he was elected.
As a result, much of the DC Swamp would have been drained on the day he walked into the WH.
Indeed Character (what you're made of) is your Destiny as Machiavelli well understood.