It looks like he was married.
He was. I remember the story well.
K.F. (though I know her name, I'm not going to go Tom Leykis on her) had sex with Kobe in a Colorado hotel. He was married with a one-year-old child at home. He claimed it was consensual. K.F. says it was rape. The media covered everything about K.F. except her name at the time, and this was before the era of MeToo. That is also the source of Kobe's nickname, the Mamba.
Kobe was a Hollywood creation. It's perfectly fine to acknowledge the accidental death of nine people, including innocent children, as a tragedy while noting the Day of Mourning that seems to be sweeping the media is a gross overreaction. Kobe was no saint. For many of us, he wasn't even a cultural icon.
I couldn't watch the Pro Bowl yesterday because ESPN was acting like JFK had just been shot.