@sneakypete Just because Dolly may be friends with Jane and Lily doesn't mean she shares their political and moral views. I don't really know what Dolly's views are because it seems she keeps those to herself. I don't see Dolly going to DC and getting arrested and never heard of her cozying up to the North Vietnamese during the war as Jane did. In the entertainment business, which is infested with liberals/socialists/communists, it is often prudent to stay out of the political fray as much as possible in order to be a success. Doesn't mean that by keeping quiet or being friends with others in the business that don't share your politics or religion, a person has that same viewpoint on those matters.
I myself come from a small town and a family that is almost all liberal Democrat. I was a liberal Democrat too as a youngin'. Over the years, I became a conservative, but I didn't shun my family or ditch my friends when my views changed. My brother is a Trump fan. Am I going to not speak to him ever again because I don't like Trump? No. In this forum, I express my political views. In real life, generally I don't. If I did, I would have no family or friends. In real life, politics and religion are two subjects I, my family and friends scrupulously avoid. Instead we focus on the things we have in common. It's quite possible Dolly does something similar.
And the same applies to sexual orientation. Lily is gay; doesn't mean Dolly or Jane are too. I read that Dolly and her husband have been married for more than 50 years. Kinda hard to maintain a successful, heterosexual marriage that long if one party is gay. But even if your unfunded speculation about Dolly's private life was true, that would not diminish my love and admiration for her. I wouldn't go out and burn my copies of her recordings. Hell, if I chose my entertainment options based on an artist's political, religious or moral views, I likely wouldn't have any music or other entertainment in my life. I'd end up being an old curmudgeon like you. LOL
You're right that Dolly worked hard to become a success. Not easy to be successful in such a cutthroat environment as music if you are a woman. She came from poverty -- one of 12 children to a poor farmer. I think she helped raise her younger siblings too. Not an easy life, but she worked hard and she made it. She didn't sit on her backside and collect a government check. She put her talent to good use. Regardless of how I might feel if it turned out Dolly was a flaming, liberal/socialist/commie bisexual, I am still going to admire her and be a fan.