Ok,nobody needs to read any more of this fools brain farts. Never mind the absurd conclusion that only boys feel the emotional pain of rejection by the opposite sex (has this goober never even MET a teenage girl that was fat or has acne???),there is nothing LESS personal than rejection,and it affects people of all genders,even undecided,as well as people of all ages.
THANK YOU!
The ironic part is that you go on to read 2 through 5, and it's all "you're not working hard enough, you don't have anything to offer anyone, you're not superficial enough." He contradicts himself in his own list. Hawkins has been writing listicles like this for years. They're usually not Buzzfeed-level terrible, but when it comes to life advice, he's not good at it. Of course, surprisingly few people are.