This whole thing bugs the sh!t out of me.
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Moreover, ex-wives are hardly unimpeachable witnesses. They are typically spiteful, hateful women who absolutely relish in the suffering of the ex-husband.
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I'm so sick of women saying ANYTHING and we just believe them hands down. Women lie. Regularly. Period.
That's right. Necessarily it MUST BE that the veracity of the evidence is the only standard.
During our divorce, my ex claimed I was a violent man who knocked her out twice.
Well, it is true I knocked her out twice.
Once, she was sneaking up behind me in the barn to surprise me... I set down the wheel barrow, opened a stall, and swung the pitchfork to clear the door in order to enter, and the handle hit resistance... I turned around to see what, and there's my wife, spread-eagle on the ground with a big red dot in the middle of her forehead.
The other time, I was trying to control a malamute, hauled back on the lead hard, and saw tennis shoes coming up toward vertical, parallel with my eye. Evidently, when I hauled back on the lead, my elbow hit her right in the eye. She was on the ground, cold-cocked, and doing the chicken over that one.
In both cases the action was performed, me all unaware, and wholly accidentally.
I am a violent man, when needed, but I never laid a hand on her ever. Never intentionally raised a bruise on anyone in my family ever.
Her accusation was nothing but a malignant damn lie (with similar photos as evidence), and one against which there was no defense but denial.