Let this be a lesson to us all. Women are dangerous. Never talk to a woman at work unless you are talking strictly about work or the weather. And having a witness around when dealing with women is a good thing. Some people thought that I was paranoid. It turns out that I had the right idea all along.
Well, allrighty then.
@Sanguine, before you scoff at what
@240B says, consider my experience. I work in a large corporation, but I'm not a world-famous "face of the company," just a working stiff. We've had multiple training sessions about Sexual Harassment over the past 25 years or so (it started when Anita Hill was believed), and it's gotten progressively more rigid each time.
Common factor in all the training: In a "he-said/she-said" situation, the scale
almost always tips to the female, few exceptions have ever occurred. Lately, the gay factor has been added, and now in a he-said/he-said scenario, the straight person always loses.
The assumption in all this is straight males are oppressors, and even if the result is unjust they deserved to be taken down a notch anyway. "Innocent until proven guilty" does not apply, and before a guy can utter one word in his defense he has to admit to the infraction. His only defense is "It was a misunderstanding," never "It didn't happen." Of course it did.
As a result, it's not an exaggeration to say "women are dangerous." They generally
are to one's career (especially for a man who doesn't look like Val Kilmer), and a man is wise to always have at least one other person present whenever working together. It can sometimes take some creativity to make that happen.
A thing that bothers me about this story is this business of Fox News having to pay off the accusers. I was taught in no uncertain terms that is not allowed, and any judgements that come down land squarely on the back of the accused.