There is a reason the last recession was popularly referred to as a "mancession". A service economy doesn't need many men.
(Almost) everything men formally did for women, the government now does.
Women need men like a fish needs a bike, I get it, it is becoming true enough for all material needs.
The japanese men who have given up are referred to as the "grass eaters". They have little ambition and many escape into videogames. The women there have very high standards and have replaced men with various pet animals. In america they are mgtow, a hijacked movement (is there any other kind?) which gives good men a bad name.
