@Kamaji And THERE it is,my friends.
I have a couple of old black men (in their 80's) locally who are friends of mine because they were my father's friends,and I have known them casually for all my life.
Both are rabid Biden/Dim supporters,but I never say anything about this stuff to them because I know they grew up in a different period,and they just don't know any better. I see no need to upset them this late in their lives.
So,when I run into them at the grocery store or somewhere else,we stop,smile at each other,and have pleasant conversations despite their Obama hats. I do this out of respect for their age.