I'm a Roman Catholic who has found it is futile to argue with members of other faiths about their beliefs. All I try to do is clarify misconceptions (of which there are many) about my own faith. It is not true that White doesn't "tear down" Catholicism. Just watch that second YouTube I referenced.
I feel the same about Catholic apologists. Who are they trying to "convert" when they "refute" my beliefs? Usually, apologists are trying to justify their own beliefs to themselves. I think we should adopt the attitude of the Jews and let other people worship they way they want and stop trying to get a notch on our belt by shaming them into believing as we do.
As a side note,epithets and profanity are wasted on me, as I've heard them all, mostly on this forum. And they don't bother me any longer. Try substituting some intelligent argument for gutter language.