I don't understand suicide, myself. I can't imagine causing so much pain to other people.
Yesterday I went to a funeral home. The physically healthy 58-year-old son of some folks from church had shot himself in the head. No warning. His poor mother was just crying, saying she didn't know why he did it, didn't know he was feeling depressed. His 90-year-old father could hardly say anything.
He left two 20-something sons and other relatives.
This is sad enough. That the Canadian government is killing its own citizens - who don't want to die, mind you - is unconscionable.
Usually people who suicide are focused on their own pain, to the exclusion of others. I believe it is that focus that impels them, and the inability or lack of desire to look beyond their personal situation to the effects their actions will have on others. Paradoxically, sometimes they may be motivated by a sense of getting even with others, but I don't think they have thought that through very well. The presence of judgement impairing substances in their systems may well be a factor.
Sadly, all too many late teen-twenty somethings have taken their own lives (or been made to appear to) in this area. It is a permanent solution to temporary problems, and I have pointed that out.
Drugs leave a question mark, because apparent suicide by OD may just be a hot load, a heavier than expected dose with tragic results, at least with IV drugs.
There are lots of ways to check out if someone is determined, but I really do not believe that decision (much as I am against doing so) should be left to anyone but the person doing so, and still would counsel against it.
But that may be my old Catholic upbringing, where we were taught to offer up our suffering for our sins.