As usual, we all step in when it's our own kin in trouble. That's the American Way.
It ain't about that... It's about a hole that you never quit digging... Somehow we have become convinced that if someone is not physically violent, any other behavior can be tolerated.
Shall we accommodate the cleptomaniac ? He is not violent... What about the peeping tom?
What about the pedo? That one is next, and it will be shoved down our throats just like homosexuality was. Already there are cries to lower the age of sexual consent...
It is not what people ARE, if that is what they generally ARE... I don't even mind how they think... But when thinking (fantasy) turns into action (reality), there's a whole bunch of lines to be drawn...
Or you get to explain the transvestite in the women's bathroom to your 8 year old granddaughter. How the hell did that ever happen?
Societal mores are there for a reason. it ain't about hating on anybody. It is about providing a safe place for women where they can raise up their children. That is what it is *FOR*. When it ceases to provide that function it is no more civil or society.