What I stated are facts. The law is the law and you can't show any different.
State and federal laws apply.
You haven't stated anything other than your unsubstantiated personal opinion. Now, let's start with the strangest proposition: please provide a statute, regulation, or binding case law holding that says it is illegal for anyone other than a minor's parents to make a gift to that minor.
If your proposition is in fact true, then most birthday parties are dens of iniquity, sin, and - more to the point - criminal conduct.