When I wrote Chinese, before, I was castigated by someone on here and informed me, she was Taiwanese and how WRONG, I was. What I notice is these women will marry anyone, as long as they have enough money. Looks, nor age matter and they like military men if they have money. The men are flattered to get someone younger. Then they get USED. Sending money for the women's relatives left behind. Or, BRING THEM TO AMERICA. I have seen this many times.
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@LegalAmerican We have all seen it.
It should be noted that not ALL marriages between westerners and Asian women are like this,but one indisputable FACT is that ALL women all through history have traditionally been limited as to their power and access to power,and have always been held responsible for the care of any children they might have. Any woman that DIDN'T take a long,hard look at her potential husbands assets was a careless fool.
This is MUCH less true of what passes for "1st World Women" these days than in earlier times,but it is still true in almost all of the 3rd world.
You really can't blame these women for this. It's called "survival for themselves and their children",and it is as real as a heart attack.
Also,since I spent over 4 years living in Asia in the 60's,I personally knew a lot of these marriages that really worked well for both the parents AND the children.
Asian women are no more guilty than any other group of women when it comes to all this. The circumstances of nature have ALWAYS dictated that the woman take a more practical approach to marriage than men because they WERE going to end up carrying the heavier burden if things went wrong.
On the other hand,ANY man that is physically unattractive that marries a VERY attractive woman 20 or 30 years younger than him is a fool if he doesn't understand what he is getting into,and has no one but himself to blame if he gets used and abused.
