“It’s also important that children grow up exposed to community values, social values, democratic values, ideas about nondiscrimination and tolerance of other people’s viewpoints,"
Yes indeed. Except my parents taught me and my siblings those things. My father once chewed out one of my aunts for her using the n word in our presence.
I went to twelve years of Catholic schools, grade and high school, and talk about those particular things was rare. At school we were basically taught about the three Rs and a few other things.
In religion class, the priests rarely or never said anything about social values and non discrimination, tolerance, etc.
I wish they would have, because they usually only talked about occasions of sin and your eternal soul being damned for sinning.
I had four years of Catholic Schooling, with eight years of public schools sandwiched in between. The Catholic schools were my salvation academically, while, in the public schools, I got the education Mark Twain referred to in
"Never let your schooling interfere with your education." (A quote that got me kicked out of an English Class in Public School, but would have launched a class discussion of the difference in the Catholic School I graduated from).
Religion was mentioned and revered in those last two years of (Catholic) Schooling, but the stress was even more on morals, on doing the Right Thing, whether it was popular, trendy, or met with resistance at every turn. (I presume I missed years laced with heavier dogma and catechism as there was no Sunday School for handful of us in our Parish in the higher grades.)
In the presence of an Omnipotent and Omniscient Deity, we were brought to understand that those fundamental rules applied to all, that legal was not the same as moral or right, that if you did wrong and no one saw, it was still wrong, and that despite any thing we individually may have felt, the source of our strength was not only limitless but a power not within us, instead granted to us by His Grace when we needed it.
Humbling? Yes, and intended to be. Yet (to use an overused word in this day and age) empowering as well.