I have worked in the same company and office, for 17 years. I don't recall a single instance of "abuse, groping, harassment" etc.
I do not do it and I have not seen it done. I am NOT saying it has not ever happened. It probably has happened, but it didn't become a huge, all consuming topic for days, weeks, etc.
I admit to lusting in my mind, in the sense Pres. Jimmy Carter spoke to. My wife accuses me of staring.