You speak of this as if it were a choice. If your solution is to allow one side to attack the other, and have the other not attack it back, how do you expect that to work out in the end?
We don't have to wait till tomorrow. My beliefs are being targeted today. What we need is a good solution to make them stop doing it.
Again, that is what is happening now. What do you propose as a solution to dealing with it?
It you are at the zoo and monkeys start throwing poo at you, do you:
A- step away from the poo flinging.
B- get a tranquilizer gun and put the monkeys to sleep.
C- drop trou and take a bit warm one in your own hand to fling back.
Hint, for adult humans, the answer is never C.
BTW, doxing is illegal, immoral, and unethical. In your example, you are going to become the very thing you hate.