@240B
I made it clear I was dangerous to the man who backed me into a corner in an empty office and tried to box me in with his body.
A history of sexual harassment isn't something normal and healthy men in general need to "get out of their system." It's an attempt to use and manipulate by using power.
I agree that sexual harassment must be more of a power issue than a sex issue. Although this may sound trite, I do not understand this kind of behavior even though it is very common. From Generals in the military, to politicians, to CEOs, it seems that the people most prone to this kind of behavior are usually the very people with the most to lose.
I guess my approach, to simply get rid of the urge, does not apply to people who are in it for power and domination. I am simple guy who thinks in simplistic terms. If I want sex, I get sex, end of story. I'm not attracted to domination which is why I do not understand why these harassers do what they do. The worst situation I personally have ever had to deal with in this regard was dealing with a married woman who had a crush on me. My God, that was a minefield.
It is best to be overly cautious when dealing with women. Truth, reality, doesn't mean anything. Just the accusation alone is enough to ruin a career and a marriage regardless of the details. I avoid women at work. It may not be for everyone, but that is how I roll.