To me, now that the election is over, judging Trump the person is pretty much irrelevant. I'm going to judge him based on the things he actually does, which is so far limited to nominations. I do think he'll continue to say some stupid things, but I'm going to wait to see how things come out after he deliberates with his cabinet/advisors, etc., before making an actual determination.
One unexpected bonus is that the Dems seem to have no interest in trying to co-opt him on aspects of his agenda they might support, such as the plan he floated for paid maternity/sick leave. They apparently have decided to go all hate, all the time. Given his personality, that makes it less likely that he'll want to cooperate with them on anything, which is probably a plus. He'll hold a grudge, and screw with them whenever he gets a chance.
At the same time, I think guys like Ryan have figured out that the best way to influence Trump is to pretend to be his buddy. So, based on his nominations (which I generally really like), and how closely he seems to be working with Congressional Republicans, I'm much more optimistic than when I first decided (reluctantly) back in June to support him in November. Of course, we still have to see how it all comes out in the wash....