Your mind works in an exact opposite manner as mine. When I read the other poster's comments, I defaulted to Individual responsibility, the other half of the freedom equation. It appears that your's defaulted to government responsibility, the other half of the tyranny equation. Now that I realize this supposition in our thinking, I am really not sure which side you are espousing. In all honesty, you may be saying this type of thing as something you might be opposing, but given our disconnect, I am simply not sure.
Let's not forget the simple equation that for every responsibility the government assumes, it is necessarily paid for in liberty lost, and that it necessarily stunts the character of the people:
If I am left to myself, I can take the decision to be benevolent to my employees.
If I am left to myself, the responsibility of taking care of my elder family members is inherent in the nature of societal norms...
If I am left to myself, it is inherent upon me to instill my children with knowledge, and to teach them what they must know.
If I am left to myself, it is upon me to exercise charity - to take care of those local to me that are in dire need.
Those responsibilities are best laid upon the citizen as they offer the opportunity to rise above the baser human kind - And that opportunity is lost the moment someone else will do it. Thus the nanny state reduces or breaks the moral societal contract, and none will rise above.
And I might add that it is often best that the citizen does indeed rise to those responsibilities, as they are likely to be the most effective.