There is no way to square Trumps treatment of good people. He's an a-hole, and that can't be hidden, or made better.
It's my opinion that it will be advantageous for Congress members of either party to oppose Trump. So, I think, and I hope, that the damage that Trump can do will be mitigated by spirited opposition from those who formerly were without a spine.
Hillary will be the first woman president and would be afforded Obama-like power.
I agree she's likely to win. But other than the Court, it may not be as bad as we think if we hold on to the House (likely) and Senate (less likely). Part of my thinking is that we are likely to be hit with a nasty recession at some point during the next 4 years, and that is going to make whichever of those two unpopular scumbags we elect even less popular. So I think there's a better than even chance of an opposition surge in 2020.
That means that if Congress can keep some of the breaks on her, the damage she does may not be extensive. What I worry about with Trump winning is the potential result in 4 years of the election of a young, aggressive progressive as President, who will have control of Congress and the courts.
I'm not saying I want Hillary to win, because I don't. But the longer-term effects of a Trump win are also likely to be scary in my opinion. So right now, Hillary winning isn't enough to overcome my issues with Trump. But, if he takes meaningful steps to address them...then maybe.