You're painting with a very broad brush. I certainly see liberalism as perpetual victimhood, since their entire philosophy is directed toward defining everyone as a victim of sorts and blaming society, money, race and conservatism as the culprits.
Let me narrow that brush.
Conservatism is, by the very definition of the word, the idea of "preserving" things. So generally speaking Conservatism opposes change. Now (all these of course are strictly my opinions) Constitutional Conservatism is the idea of preserving the Constitution as the primary focus of governance and a tool to control the government. Social conservatism tries to use the government as a tool to try ans stave off societal changes, and that's when things get ugly.
Societal changes are about as normal a process as the seasons, and societies tend to change by becoming more liberal (in a manner of speaking) or by knocking down barriers and taboos. When Social Conservatives try to enlist the help of government to stop these changes from happening, and run afoul of the law, as was the case with Prop 8, the definition of what is conservatism gets all unclear and muddled.
Being a Constitutional conservative is easy since all you have to do is agree with whether or not the solution to any issue was arrived at in a Constitutional manner, with little concern over what the actual issue is. After all, if the Constitution says it is OK to do it, then no laws can be enacted to the contrary, so just move along and learn to live with it.
Social conservatives appear to not be able to do that and appear to play that victim card a lot.
"Attacks" on religion... "attacks" on the traditional family... "attacks" on traditional marriage are not so much attacks, as they are societal changes that social conservatives oppose, pushing back against them.
At the end of the day, Christianity will survive as will the traditional family and traditional marriage. We will probably see changes in religion with some denominations being more liberal and accepting than others, but religion will survive. There will be both traditional families and non-traditional families, but families will survive, and there will be both traditional and non-traditional marriages, but marriage will survive.
The only thing that I truly, truly fear is the possible results of our class warfare and racial divisions. They are fabricated by politicians as a tool to achieve power.
A house divided cannot stand.