Big missiles prefer big targets.
Give the Chi-coms swarms of lower value targets on which to inefficiently expend their missile stockpile, with minimal degradation to America's forces.
Pearl Harbor was a strategic failure for the Japanese because America's aircraft carriers were not in port on December 7, 1941.
Don't put all of America's strategic bombers on Guam. Spread them around.
Use submarines as submerged missile launch plaforms. Keep the Chi-coms guessing where American military assets are.
Large stationary land installation are the easiest for the Chi-coms to target. Mobile and submersible assets are more difficult to target.
The US Navy needs a greater percentage of its surface fleet to be nuclear powered so they do not have to refuel. It was the need to refuel that led to the sinking of the Bismarck.
The Chi-coms will attempt to use numerical superiority to overwhelm US forces, therefore, the US Military needs to become adept at creating improvised kill boxes/zones to degrade the Chi-coms at less expense to the US Military.
The key to defeating the Chi-coms is sustained, more efficient lethality to defeat the Chi-coms in a war of attrition.
Primary targets should be production, supplies, and logistics. An offensive force will starve itself of resources if it does not get re-supplied or cannot live off the land.