We do have a sea anchor. This is a Catalina. We are NOT going that far out in the ocean. The oversized outboard has come in re handy twice now. We don't sail in questionable weather. We have friends who were demasted in good weather due to the stupidity of a third party. I don't want to be stuck trying to sail the boat alone if something happens to my husband.
I like Catalina, I had a Catalina 22 before I stepped up to a J-24. Always wanted a Catalina 30, great all around affordable sailboat. Now if I had the money I'd go for a J-33.
Well in your case a good outboard is a must. You don't want to lose steerage in a blow and you don't want to get blown onto shore. I good danforth anchor with a long line saved me more than once when I was learned to sail the little 22. Enjoy your boat sometimes I wish I still had mine.