I'll be curious to find out what you think after finishing the series. I've read the five books that have been finished, but I doubt that I will bother to read the next book in the series, if it is ever written. While it is true that the writing is excellent technically, I found the worldview that underpins the series to be very... distasteful. But I would like to know what you think of it once you finish reading.
Oh, I finished long ago... Then went over to HBO/Max and paid em a month to watch the series - to include the last season, which I had never watched, much for the reason you assert against the books.
Maybe it is because I watched the series first, I found the books refreshingly nearly free of the Homo/lez events - even much of the sex was muted by comparison. So I am interested to hear what you mean.
It certainly is a study in human avarice, power, and greed... But a book of its nature can't really avoid that. It is a Game of Thrones, after all. It is certainly violent - As a reasonable portrayal of lopping things off with swords would tend to be...
It is scattered with the Occult but that is hardly anything but expected in Sword & Sorcery (SciFiFan) as a genre- the 'sorcery' is always occult/satanic to include demonic beings (elvenkind, giants, tree nymphs, gnomes, etc).
In fact, I was a bit disappointed that the three-eyed crow shtick and the white-walkers were not better explained. I did find offense in the religion of the Lord of Light particularly, and to a lesser degree, the septens the seven... a fairly ham-handed assault on religion, and a thin veil covering that assault particularly upon the Christian religion... with the three-headed crow thing smelling faintly druidic.
Is that what you are pointing at?