The Briefing Room
General Category => Science, Technology and Knowledge => Topic started by: Sanguine on July 09, 2019, 12:49:27 am
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by John Anderer
EAST LANSING, Mich — Countless dating sites and apps claim to use sophisticated algorithms and techniques to connect users with their “perfect match.†While sharing interests certainly doesn’t hurt, a new study out of Michigan State University claims that at the end of the day, simply finding a nice and pleasant partner is more important.
“People invest a lot in finding someone who’s compatible, but our research says that may not be the end all be all,†explains lead study author Bill Chopik in a release. “Instead, people may want to ask, ‘Are they a nice person?’ ‘Do they have a lot of anxiety?’ Those things matter way more than the fact that two people are introverts and end up together.â€
Chopik and his team claim to have conducted the most comprehensive study ever on relationship happiness. More specifically, researchers utilized a long-term survey of more than 2,500 heterosexual couples who have been married around 20 years. Using this data, the study’s authors measured the impact of personality traits on well-being in these relationships....
...the study found that having a conscientious and nice partner leads to a more satisfying relationship. The study also concluded that relationships including a person who is especially neurotic, or extroverted, leads to lower relationship satisfaction....
https://www.studyfinds.org/finding-kind-partner-more-important-than-compatibility-relationships/ (https://www.studyfinds.org/finding-kind-partner-more-important-than-compatibility-relationships/)
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I've taught my daughters someone who is nice to you but rude to the waiter is not a nice person. Watch how they treat people they are not trying to impress.