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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: mystery-ak on September 09, 2014, 08:29:01 pm
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I received this message from DC...his son needs our prayers now!
Rather than upset anybody by creating a thread on the forum, I'll use this feature. Hope nobody minds....
Today around noon time, I was notified that my oldest son, Clifford, age 44 was involved in a horrific motorcycle accident in Germantown, Maryland, about 5 minutes from my house.
He was on his way home to pick up his car and then going to pick up his wife at the hospital. She was having an outpatient procedure.
He had just filled up his bike and was proceeding to get onto the I-270 freeway north, when a girl, pulling out of the BurgerKing, hit him broadside.
He is now in the shock trauma unit at Suburban Hospital in Bethesda, Maryland...because they were afraid there would be enough time to get him to Baltimore Shock Trauma.
His left leg was hanging by a thread of skin and right now they are trying to stop the bleeding of the major artery...which will determine the leg can be saved. Passersby used their shirts as tourniquets in an attempt to keep him from bleeding out.
I just had an argument with him on selling the bike...the other day. Not for his carelessness, but for "the other guy".
All I'm asking is that you keep him in your prayers. He is a father of two children, Elias 12 and Cassidy, 17.
As I think of you as friends, I hope you don't mind.
Thanks.
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Prayers for Clifford!
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Prayers sent, my friend. For you, Clifford, his family, and the medical teams.
And they will continue. Please keep us informed when you can.
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I am praying now.
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Hail Mary please hear our prayers...
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Prayers Up for our friend, David, his son Clifford, and their entire family..... Lord, please be with each of them at this moment, and minister to each of their needs during this time of crisis.... Please Bless them all, and be with the entire medical team, guide their hands, steady their emotions, and fill their minds with the exact and precise knowledge needed to operate successfully on this young man!! We ask this in your son Jesus' name, and through the power of the Holy Spirit!!
Amen.
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I'd like to throw in an extra, if you don't mind:
Dear Lord, thank you for, in your infinite wisdom and mercy, a passerby who knew how to use a tourniquet was right there. Bless him.
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Prayers Up for our friend, David, his son Clifford, and their entire family..... Lord, please be with each of them at this moment, and minister to each of their needs during this time of crisis.... Please Bless them all, and be with the entire medical team, guide their hands, steady their emotions, and fill their minds with the exact and precise knowledge needed to operate successfully on this young man!! We ask this in your son Jesus' name, and through the power of the Holy Spirit!!
Amen.
Amen !!
Thank you, Katz for leading us in prayer.
The Lord is good and we have faith that He will hear our request for Clifford in this moment of need and emergency.
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Prayers up for Clifford and the whole family impacted by this tragedy. Events like this help us all to refocus our attention on the things that really matter.
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Prayers Up for our friend, David, his son Clifford, and their entire family..... Lord, please be with each of them at this moment, and minister to each of their needs during this time of crisis.... Please Bless them all, and be with the entire medical team, guide their hands, steady their emotions, and fill their minds with the exact and precise knowledge needed to operate successfully on this young man!! We ask this in your son Jesus' name, and through the power of the Holy Spirit!!
Amen.
Amen and AMEN!!
Your son and family (and YOU!) are in my prayers, DC!
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Thank you all so much for your beautiful prayer offerings.
It's now 8:30PM and I just got back from the hospital.
The surgeon came out to tell us that they reattached his left lower leg and that he won't know for sure until 48-72 hours if he can keep it. An artery was lost...which I don't quite understand. He also used what he described as something that looks like saran wrap around the wound, as the skin tissue is missing. His brother Jason, age 42...also his business partner in their real estate brokerage, told us that the fire department used a hose to wash down the scene and that he saw leg tissue being washed away. So that explains the clear wrap.
As EC can probably attest, the main concern right now is the threat of infection, which the surgeon says is guaranteed to surface. Told us he'll probably be in there for about 4 weeks minimum.
Other than some serious skin abrasions from surfing the asphalt, he said Cliff is in pretty good shape. They are also trying to settle his heart rate, as he was given 4 pints of blood. They had a problem all afternoon, getting the artery to stop bleeding. Something about coiling it or something. Wish I could be more coherent.
I promise not to make this thread a long drawn out affair like the one for Adam. I heard that some here complained...which I guess is understandable.
For that I apologize. Myst...I love you. Thank you for giving me an outlet to share this with you all.
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Phooey on the complainers! You use this thread as long as YOU need to, friend!
Thanks for the update. As serious as it sounds, it seems like he is getting very good medical care. (Modern medicine is amazing, but God is downright AWESOME! :laugh: )
We can now be praying for his more specific needs.............. and yours.
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I promise not to make this thread a long drawn out affair like the one for Adam. I heard that some here complained...which I guess is understandable.
For that I apologize.
Never apologize....F'em......thanks for checking in...I have been refreshing constantly waiting for your update....still praying to the Blessed Virgin....
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Thank you DC for the update, and it sounds a little better. And to hell with anyone who doesn't like these threads. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with Clifford, you and the family. I'm not very good with words as others here are, but I second them and hope you keep us updated, only when you are able. Take care!
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It looks like it's been a tough year for both of us. All the positivity I can muster is aimed right at you, my friend.
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I am at a public meeting (County) witnessing messy democracy but my thoughts and prayers are with my friend and his family. It is also with Cliff's medical team.
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I promise not to make this thread a long drawn out affair like the one for Adam. I heard that some here complained...which I guess is understandable.
For that I apologize. Myst...I love you. Thank you for giving me an outlet to share this with you all.
If somebody doesn't like a thread, they don't have to click on it!
Good news on his leg and prayers that it will heal. Prayers for his family and for you too David! I know this has been a hard time for you, so continued prayers your way.
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Prayers for you and Clifford.
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Thank you all so much for your beautiful prayer offerings.
It's now 8:30PM and I just got back from the hospital.
The surgeon came out to tell us that they reattached his left lower leg and that he won't know for sure until 48-72 hours if he can keep it. An artery was lost...which I don't quite understand. He also used what he described as something that looks like saran wrap around the wound, as the skin tissue is missing. His brother Jason, age 42...also his business partner in their real estate brokerage, told us that the fire department used a hose to wash down the scene and that he saw leg tissue being washed away. So that explains the clear wrap.
As EC can probably attest, the main concern right now is the threat of infection, which the surgeon says is guaranteed to surface. Told us he'll probably be in there for about 4 weeks minimum.
Other than some serious skin abrasions from surfing the asphalt, he said Cliff is in pretty good shape. They are also trying to settle his heart rate, as he was given 4 pints of blood. They had a problem all afternoon, getting the artery to stop bleeding. Something about coiling it or something. Wish I could be more coherent.
I promise not to make this thread a long drawn out affair like the one for Adam. I heard that some here complained...which I guess is understandable.
For that I apologize. Myst...I love you. Thank you for giving me an outlet to share this with you all.
Prayers still going strong here and thank the Lord for answered prayers so far!
PM sent on roughly what to expect.
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Keep your chin up
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It's clear to me how blessed I am....to have such a fine group of people as friends and extended 'family'.
I tried on several occasions last night to express myself on the thread, but was too emotional to be very coherent. Don't want anybody to think I was non-responsive.
EC (Mark)....thank you so much for explaining what they did yesterday in such layman terms. Am copying it to give to Rebecca (Cliff's wife) and his brother, Jason.
Yes, Suburban Shock Trauma is affiliated with Johns Hopkins....if you recall, that is where Adam was first brought when his shunt problems manifested before they took him to Baltimore.
Funny...but it was Adam who first notified me yesterday, but it was entirely unrelated to the accident.
It seems that Rebecca was having a women-thing procedure and it was Cliff himself that asked for prayers for the family (on his Facebook timeline) at this time. Adam texted me asking me if I was okay....he thought the prayer request for was me or somebody else in the family going thru a crises, etc.. He couldn't get anybody and was starting to worry.
When nobody answered my texts...we both got a bit concerned and finally, my daughter-in-law....Jason's wife told me what just happened to Cliff.
Cliff and Jason are co-owners of a real estate firm...and last evening when the surgeon came out to speak to us, there were at least 40 people in the waiting room anxiously waiting. They say a man can be judged by how many friends they have. Cliff is always the life of any party. Am very proud of them.
Thank you all again. This is the best damned place in the world to me...to have such closeness to people I've never met face to face.
damn eyes starting up again. LOL!
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Good morning DC,
Hope today will be better for Cliff. Get rest and drop us a line only if you get a chance. Take care.
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Good morning DC,
Hope today will be better for Cliff. Get rest and drop us a line only if you get a chance. Take care.
Yes. Meanwhile, prayers continue.
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Good morning, MAC and Lando!
Getting ready to go to the hospital right now. They said they weren't going to awaken Cliff until today sometime, but since everybody else has kids to deal with on a school day, I'll be there.
EC provided many helpful details as to what's going on and what to expect in the coming hours, days, and months.
Also...my own predicament...my BP was 103/64 for God knows how long. The cardiologist had prescribed 2 additional meds just prior to my cardio cath procedure and together with the two I was already taking, no wonder I wanted to lay down all the time and was unsteady on my feet.
It's now the 2nd day not taking all four and the lightheadedness has lessened quite a bit. Hopefully by the end of the week I'll be somewhat normal.
Still planning on getting a CAT scan to make sure it isn't from my original fall when I head my face on the toilet seat.
Thank you guys for being there. It means so much to me. :beer:
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Morning DCP! Git gone - and make sure you eat something!
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I'm so sorry you and your family have been going through such emotional and physical turmoil of late, DC. Prayers for healing for all.
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DC- prayers for you and for Clifford. Please get yourself some rest, keep your chin up, and know that so many of us here are thinking of you.
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Morning DCP! Git gone - and make sure you eat something!
Hi Mark...
Just left the hospital because when I got there this morning, his brother, wife and daughter were all in the waiting area. The docs cleared everybody out of the room because they needed to change the wound dressing...which I understand was/is very painful. Bottom line, they had to knock him out again.
So...I still haven't looked into his eyes since Sunday.
Since I have job responsibilities, they told me to take care of my business and I'll make another attempt mid afternoon.
They said they detected a faint pulse in his foot this morning but it still is white and cold to the touch. I guess that means he's going in the right direction.
I have and do eat a healthy diet...sort of...LOL! You suggested Gatorade...but reading the label, the sugar content makes me nervous as I am now anything BUT the athlete I used to be as a younger man. But hey...what the hell...since I'm losing weight (despite eating 3 meals a day), I'll deal with any elevated glucose levels another time.
Haven't tasted red meat in at least six months. It's chicken and fish for me. And coffee? Sorry...not going to give up coffee.
Thanks again for the 'inside baseball' advice on what to expect and what they're doing to him. I relayed it to the family and they all are thankful. :beer:
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Keeping on praying.
The pulse is good news, at least some oxygen is getting down there! Trust the surgeon - who sounds like one amazing one - and trust in Clifford's toughness. Wonder where he gets that from ....
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Keeping on praying.
The pulse is good news, at least some oxygen is getting down there! Trust the surgeon - who sounds like one amazing one - and trust in Clifford's toughness. Wonder where he gets that from ....
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Thanks for the smile, EC!
Jason said that Cliff remembers every detail of the accident and that it was HIM that asked the passersby to help him stop the bleeding so he wouldn't pass out. He's a big guy...6'2" and about 225 lbs. And his golf drives are always over 300 yards. LOL!
I teased Jason that now maybe he can beat him. :laugh:
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I am late to this thread....prayers
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I am late to this thread....prayers
Thanks, flowers.
Am using PMs to respond individually, but it says I've exceeded the ten message limit per hour. LOL!
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Thanks for the smile, EC!
Jason said that Cliff remembers every detail of the accident and that it was HIM that asked the passersby to help him stop the bleeding so he wouldn't pass out. He's a big guy...6'2" and about 225 lbs. And his golf drives are always over 300 yards. LOL!
I teased Jason that now maybe he can beat him. :laugh:
That's amazing that he was aware enough to request a tourniquet. Sounds like a strong guy and that's a big plus for him! Keep taking care of yourself DC.
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Thanks for the updates, DC. Prayers are continuing for all of you!!
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F'em(…)still praying to the Blessed Virgin
Hate to provide unwarranted comic relief but those were two concepts I never thought I'd see in the same paragraph!
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Hate to provide unwarranted comic relief but those were two concepts I never thought I'd see in the same paragraph!
LOL....she understands...
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Finally had the opportunity to catch Cliff awake...had a nice visit with him. And my ex-wife.
Cliff immediately says..."Wow! It's just like old times...and I'm 4 years old!" We all shared a belly laugh, until Cliff asked us to bring the volume level down.
Trouble was....we were whispering.
He remembers everything about the accident scene down to every detail. He recalls seeing the woman talking on her cell phone and he said to himself..."She doesn't see me....OH NO!!!!"
They found a strong pulse on his outside ankle area, but nothing yet on the instep and toe area. He has no feeling below the lower instep toward the big toe, yet.
But the doctor remains optimistic. Cliff needs that too.
I brought him some Chick-Fill-A strips, but he only mustered one bite. He falls asleep in mid sentence....30 seconds later he snores loudly and wakes himself up and continues his thought as if he didn't doze off. He has a pain dispense where he only needs to press a button when the green light appears.
Yesterday, the nurse said he hit it 114 times!!!
It was good to see him looking back at me with those big doe eyes! sigh........
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Finally had the opportunity to catch Cliff awake...had a nice visit with him. And my ex-wife.
Cliff immediately says..."Wow! It's just like old times...and I'm 4 years old!" We all shared a belly laugh, until Cliff asked us to bring the volume level down.
Trouble was....we were whispering.
He remembers everything about the accident scene down to every detail. He recalls seeing the woman talking on her cell phone and he said to himself..."She doesn't see me....OH NO!!!!"
They found a strong pulse on his outside ankle area, but nothing yet on the instep and toe area. He has no feeling below the lower instep toward the big toe, yet.
But the doctor remains optimistic. Cliff needs that too.
I brought him some Chick-Fill-A strips, but he only mustered one bite. He falls asleep in mid sentence....30 seconds later he snores loudly and wakes himself up and continues his thought as if he didn't doze off. He has a pain dispense where he only needs to press a button when the green light appears.
Yesterday, the nurse said he hit it 114 times!!!
It was good to see him looking back at me with those big doe eyes! sigh........
Hang in there DC. It's great that you got to visit with your son and have a nice conversation. He needs to sleep now, I always heard that the body heals itself while we are sleeping - so you need to make sure you're getting enough too. We're all your friends here and we're sending lots of prayers and positive thinking your way. :beer:
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Thank you DC for the update. Problems, but it sounds more positive. Cliff has a pretty damned good dad! :beer:
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Thank you DC for the update. Problems, but it sounds more positive. Cliff has a pretty damned good dad! :beer:
Thanks, MAC! Truly appreciate you!
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Hang in there DC. It's great that you got to visit with your son and have a nice conversation. He needs to sleep now, I always heard that the body heals itself while we are sleeping - so you need to make sure you're getting enough too. We're all your friends here and we're sending lots of prayers and positive thinking your way. :beer:
Thank you so much, Alice.
Was answering everyone in PMs....but went over my limit last night. LOL!
Myst has given me the muster to do it on the thread here....so from here on, that's where I'll converse with everybody.
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Best to you and your family. Hope all continues to go well.
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Best to you and your family. Hope all continues to go well.
Thank you, ONC.....we seem to be headed in the right direction. Next few days will determine a lot. He's in a good mental state, considering.
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Thank you, ONC.....we seem to be headed in the right direction. Next few days will determine a lot. He's in a good mental state, considering.
Still praying DC!
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Still praying DC!
Thank you, flowers!
Little update: Cliff texted me last nite, inviting me to "join us for the Ravens-Steelers game". Now....before anybody jumps on me let me explain why I didn't even respond to it.
Cliff's room is directly across the hall from the nurse's station. The room is probably 13 X 13. There's only enough room around the bed for 2 stiff back chairs and one for somebody to be able to sleep in...for a spouse or family member to get a little sleep. All the rest is computer screens, monitors, etc..
I called his brother Jason and said...."you know, it's about time somebody stand up to Cliff and not only tell him NO...but HELL NO! This isn't "Buffalo Wings and Beer".... a regional sports bar franchise. It's Suburban/Johns Hopkins shock-freaking trauma. Have some respect not only for the environment but also the sick people next door and down the hall."
Jason said, "Dad...I'd rather we be watching football with him rather than him in a casket...which by the Grace of God didn't happen!"
So...I dropped it.
This morning, I apologized to both of them for not coming and they both said almost word for word...."Dad, I/we had a tough evening last night and it's good you didn't come."
Evidently, he drifted off and woke up into a full-fledged panic attack. His teeth were chattering uncontrollably and his heart rate was 130+. The nurse said they had a helluva time bringing it down. Come to find out, one of his drips was not working.
Cliff is scheduled for his 1st follow up surgery tomorrow 8:30AM in an attempt to repair nerve and artery/vein damage. He's only got the main artery and has lost the two supporting ones we all have in our lower leg below the knee.
Also, they are getting prepared for the coming infections, which they told him this morning are guaranteed to surface.
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Oh, my, DC! Continued prayers!
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Thanks for the update DC. I just can't imagine what you and the family are going through. Hang in there, and thoughts and prayers for Cliff.
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Thank you, flowers!
Little update: Cliff texted me last nite, inviting me to "join us for the Ravens-Steelers game". Now....before anybody jumps on me let me explain why I didn't even respond to it.
Cliff's room is directly across the hall from the nurse's station. The room is probably 13 X 13. There's only enough room around the bed for 2 stiff back chairs and one for somebody to be able to sleep in...for a spouse or family member to get a little sleep. All the rest is computer screens, monitors, etc..
I called his brother Jason and said...."you know, it's about time somebody stand up to Cliff and not only tell him NO...but HELL NO! This isn't "Buffalo Wings and Beer".... a regional sports bar franchise. It's Suburban/Johns Hopkins shock-freaking trauma. Have some respect not only for the environment but also the sick people next door and down the hall."
Jason said, "Dad...I'd rather we be watching football with him rather than him in a casket...which by the Grace of God didn't happen!"
So...I dropped it.
This morning, I apologized to both of them for not coming and they both said almost word for word...."Dad, I/we had a tough evening last night and it's good you didn't come."
Evidently, he drifted off and woke up into a full-fledged panic attack. His teeth were chattering uncontrollably and his heart rate was 130+. The nurse said they had a helluva time bringing it down. Come to find out, one of his drips was not working.
Cliff is scheduled for his 1st follow up surgery tomorrow 8:30AM in an attempt to repair nerve and artery/vein damage. He's only got the main artery and has lost the two supporting ones we all have in our lower leg below the knee.
Also, they are getting prepared for the coming infections, which they told him this morning are guaranteed to surface.
thanks for the update.
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DCP... hang in there my friend. Prayers continue.
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Prayers ongoing, my friend.
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Thank you, musiclady, MAC, Lando and EC!
I going to see him this evening again, with.......ADAM! :laugh:
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Cliff had a major setback last night around midnight.
At 1AM, he woke up in tremendous pain and Jason discovered a pool of blood from his ankle to his butt.
They rushed him into surgery at 1AM for 2 hours. He blew his artery. Doctors told Jason. "this is a bad one".
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Cliff had a major setback last night around midnight.
At 1AM, he woke up in tremendous pain and Jason discovered a pool of blood from his ankle to his butt.
They rushed him into surgery at 1AM for 2 hours. He blew his artery. Doctors told Jason. "this is a bad one".
Very sorry to hear this, DC. I am hoping and praying for the best.
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Cliff had a major setback last night around midnight.
At 1AM, he woke up in tremendous pain and Jason discovered a pool of blood from his ankle to his butt.
They rushed him into surgery at 1AM for 2 hours. He blew his artery. Doctors told Jason. "this is a bad one".
Sorry to hear the news DC. Prayers for Clifford and for his doctors and healthcare team - and continued prayers for you.
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Very sorry to hear this, DC. I am hoping and praying for the best.
Thank you, Victor.
Jason tried to explain the problem here. They must save his foot in order for the rest of the leg to heal. Otherwise it's not just amputating below the knee...it would mean from the upper thigh. (Even though the stitches begin just below the knee).
They asked me to just be on call to pick up children from school and getting them safely home, etc.. Asked me not to come to the hospital right now.
He's back in ICU for now, so he's getting the best possible care available.
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I was hoping he was over the hump...and on the road to recovery...keeping him in my prayers....
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Doesn't sound good right now, but I understand not wanting a lot of folks at the hospital at this time. Anyway it sounds like you are able to help out in other ways, and that's good. Hang in there.
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Just remembered Cliff in morning prayers before finding this setback message. Will keep thoughts and prayers going for Cliff for the remainder of the day. Hang in there DC.
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Not great, but not too bad either. Jason was right there, and they got him in to OR fast. Chances are still good that this repair will hold. Don't be surprised if they increase his sedation for a time so he can't move.
Praying hard.
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Will be continuing to keep Clifford in prayer throughout the day.
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Hang in there DCP... prayers continue.
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Thank you everybody! :patriot:
Must be getting 'old' in the eyes of the family. Jason gave me explicit orders (in a text) on picking up my grandson from his school...and added, "Counting on you pops...don't screw this up!" LOL!
I've been voicing concerns on how cavalier the attitude has been this past week. It's been exactly a week since the accident...almost to the minute.
Suggested last weekend to Jason they back off on the revolving door of visitors and well-wishers...having a dozen people in the room supposedly watching the BILLS game on Sunday. On a laptop!! Chicken wings, pizza, etc.. Told them it's a trauma unit, not a walk-in clinic. :shrug:
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Sorry about the setback......still praying.
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Sorry about the setback......still praying.
Hi flowers.....
Just returned from the hospital. They have him intubated and will keep him knocked out till tomorrow morning. They did an angiogram and the doctors "liked what they saw". So, we're starting back at square one. ICU.
Hopefully, Jason will take control and keep everybody but immediate family away...so that he can heal without all the excitement.
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Sorry you're going through such a tough patch, DCP
Prayers-across-the-miles...
RR
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Sorry you're going through such a tough patch, DCP
Prayers-across-the-miles...
RR
Thanks, RR! :patriot:
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Update:
I received a call from my son Jason, that Cliff has some serious issues going on at the moment. They will not touch the leg anymore at this time as he has an embolism in his lung. Right now they have him sedated and quiet and plan on transferring him from Suburban Hospital to Baltimore Shock Trauma.
They are supposedly recognized as one of the very best in the country for dealing with matters such as this. A 95% success rate I heard!
They removed the bandage (saran wrap-like) on his leg, but cannot move it...cannot put him under because of the blood clot in his lung.
His fever is very high. Jason is wondering why they didn't move him to Baltimore 48 hrs ago when they first discovered the embolism. I guess they were trying to dissolve it or something and stopped for some reason. Must be pretty bad.
My son BEGGED me not to come and to let him and Cliff's wife deal with everything. I don't want to get in the way, and he PROMISED me he'd let me know when they are ready to transfer him to Baltimore. Don't know if they are doing it by helicopter or ambulance. It's a good hour's drive up Rt 95 from Bethesda, MD.
I'm feeling a bit helpless, but cognizant that it's not about me. Maybe they're concerned about my health too. Don't know.
Knew we were to expect infections, but never dreamed of this.....
If you get a moment, say a prayer that everything works out here. Thank you very much.
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Update:
I received a call from my son Jason, that Cliff has some serious issues going on at the moment. They will not touch the leg anymore at this time as he has an embolism in his lung. Right now they have him sedated and quiet and plan on transferring him from Suburban Hospital to Baltimore Shock Trauma.
They are supposedly recognized as one of the very best in the country for dealing with matters such as this. A 95% success rate I heard!
They removed the bandage (saran wrap-like) on his leg, but cannot move it...cannot put him under because of the blood clot in his lung.
His fever is very high. Jason is wondering why they didn't move him to Baltimore 48 hrs ago when they first discovered the embolism. I guess they were trying to dissolve it or something and stopped for some reason. Must be pretty bad.
My son BEGGED me not to come and to let him and Cliff's wife deal with everything. I don't want to get in the way, and he PROMISED me he'd let me know when they are ready to transfer him to Baltimore. Don't know if they are doing it by helicopter or ambulance. It's a good hour's drive up Rt 95 from Bethesda, MD.
I'm feeling a bit helpless, but cognizant that it's not about me. Maybe they're concerned about my health too. Don't know.
Knew we were to expect infections, but never dreamed of this.....
If you get a moment, say a prayer that everything works out here. Thank you very much.
Wow. So many parallels with me and my wife's cancer. Infection after infection. Setback after setback. And there I was sitting i the hospital room helpless to do much else except hope. In our case, it did turn out okay (or quasi okay, she's still in chemo, but cancer-free).
I know you are just sitting there hoping you can get back to normalcy. I hope you get some comfort from knowing everyone here hopes the same thing.
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I'll be praying, DC! God is faithful!
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I'm with you DC. Hang in there.
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We've been keeping Cliff and your family in our Prayers each morning, DCP, and will continue to do so. Keep your head up and lean on Our Father each moment of the day and night. Extra prayers up now for all of you!!
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Oh I'm so sorry to hear of this DC. Sending healing prayers for Clifford and his healthcare team - prayers can bring miracles! And now for you, prayers too. You've had so much to deal with lately, I pray you are holding up OK. Please let me know if there is anything further I can do - we are all praying and keeping you in our positive thoughts. You are surrounded by friends here!
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praying right now...
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DCP... I keep you, Clifford, your family and the medical team in my prayers every day. Saying an extra one now.
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DCP... I keep you, Clifford, your family and the medical team in my prayers every day. Saying an extra one now.
Thank you Lando...and everyone! Appreciate the prayers and well wishes.
Tried to see Cliff last evening, but Jason begged me not to go into the ICU, as "Cliff was not himself". Decided to go down to the hospital because nobody was returning my texts or calls. Even the operator said no nurse could speak to me because they were attending to him. So I went to see for myself.
Saw that Jason tried to call twice in the middle of the night (turned the volume down when I went there and forgot to reset it).
Jason said it was the most horrific experience he had in his life...one of the doctors said it was "inhumane" what they had to do.
Because of the pulmonary embolism, they couldn't administer anesthesia to remove the vacuum pump and change the wound dressing. It took 2 hours of what Jason described as pure hell. Ashamed to say I was glad I wasn't there.
They gave Cliff something to make him 'forget' the experience...kinda like the Men in Black, as Jason described it. He' wishes they could have given it to him, and he was surprised they didn't tell him to leave the room.
He's being taken to Baltimore later this morning...it's now 6AM. He's concerned that the vacuum pump they use in transit is not as strong as the one in the ICU, but it is what it is.
Hopefully, the leg can be saved, but Jason has the sick feeling they're going to take it.
Again...it means a lot to know that I have friends and moral support here. Thanks so much!
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DCP... so sorry the strength of everyone is being so supremely tested. Sounds like this will be a long journey. Prayers continue.
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Still praying DC. 034
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As hard as it must be for you, DC ...we do appreciate the updates. Just know, that many prayers are being said for Cliff, you and the rest of your family. Be strong, DC, you remain in our thoughts and hearts.
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Still praying DC.
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I can only imagine how hard this must be.
Praying for you and yours.
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Wow, DCP. That's frightening and heavy news.
Clifford, you and your family will be in my prayers today.
Please know that you are not alone! :0001:
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Hang in there, my friend. We're all praying hard as we can for all of you.
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You're not "dumping" anything on anyone.
You're sharing with friends.
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Update: 11_30PM
Not good at all. I'm exhausted and feeling helpless.
Baltimore Shock Trauma has him on lock-down and nobody but Jason and Rebecca are allowed in. Jason says there is no sense in me driving up there because he's intubated and not conscious.
CT scan revealed the same artery is bleeding out again. Cliff's BP fell to 44/20. How in Lord's name can somebody still be alive with blood pressure that low? They tied off another tourniquet and gave him 2 more pints of blood.
The leg if full of infection (which we expected) and they cut out as much as they could, but how much has traveled, they don't know. They told Jay and Rebecca that they will not take the leg before discussing it with Cliff...which we're thinking may be tomorrow.
Haven't even discussed the pulmonary embolism in his lung yet.
I don't know what to do....sorry for dropping all this on you beautiful people.
DC, don't ever feel bad for sharing your burden with us - we're your friends and that's what friends are for. You know that we are praying for Clifford AND for you - you know you aren't alone in this. It's hard, but this is too much for you to deal with by yourself - you have to put it in God's hands. You have to have the faith to LEAVE it in God's hands! He will pick you up and carry you when you no longer have the strength to walk on your own.
I'm praying that you will find comfort in knowing that all things will happen according to God's plan.....in God's time. Trust in him and know that he hears you and loves you. He knows every hair on your head and knew you before you were born. You don't have to go through this alone! Know that we are all praying - and that Jesus said where two or more are gathered in my name - there I am also.
We're your friends DC, we love you. Please lean on us, that's what we're here for.
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DC, don't ever feel bad for sharing your burden with us - we're your friends and that's what friends are for. You know that we are praying for Clifford AND for you - you know you aren't alone in this. It's hard, but this is too much for you to deal with by yourself - you have to put it in God's hands. You have to have the faith to LEAVE it in God's hands! He will pick you up and carry you when you no longer have the strength to walk on your own.
I'm praying that you will find comfort in knowing that all things will happen according to God's plan.....in God's time. Trust in him and know that he hears you and loves you. He knows every hair on your head and knew you before you were born. You don't have to go through this alone! Know that we are all praying - and that Jesus said where two or more are gathered in my name - there I am also.
We're your friends DC, we love you. Please lean on us, that's what we're here for.
YEAH!
What she said!
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Alice, am speechless after reading your post and PM. Lump in my throat like a baseball with blurry eyes from tears.
First, sorry for my rambling earlier. Thought better after reading my last three posts updates and deleted them. (It's one of the bennies of posting in the middle of the night).
Got showered and dressed just after midnight and got as far as the expressway ramp when I noticed an empty gas tank. Since I have a diesel...took it as a sign to stop. Came back home and fell asleep in my clothes.
Just now saw that Jason texted me me at 1:45 am and said Cliff is in recovery and that the conversation will be had with Cliff this morning whether to amputate or do whatever it takes to save it. He said that most of the muscle in his left calf is simply gone. Nothing but a hole there. It's going to be a tough one.
I'm going up there first sign of daylight and even if it's from the waiting room...that's where I'll stay.
Last conversation I had with Cliff was how upset and disappointed he was that he had to cancel his reservation to play Pebble Beach this week. The corporate convention is being held in California. Golf is one of his passions.
Feel so bad for him. He's 44 and a little league coach..his son Elias plays on a select traveling team, even went for a week earlier this summer in Tennessee.
His entire existence will change drastically. His personality has already gone AWOL. Just awful..the entire spectacle.
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Good morning DC. Sounds like you had a pretty bad night. Perhaps some good will come out of today. I know they're doing everything they can, and I can't imagine what all of your family and you are going through. But we're good listeners, and our thoughts and prayers continue to be with Cliff and you. Take care.
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Exactly what Alice said, 1000%.
And you, my friend, take good care of yourself as well.
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DC, prayers said this morning and will continue with thoughts and prayers through out the day.
If we can help or bring you any comfort then post as often and as much as you want because your friends here are deeply touched, worried and want to help in any way possible.
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DC, don't ever feel bad for sharing your burden with us - we're your friends and that's what friends are for. You know that we are praying for Clifford AND for you - you know you aren't alone in this. It's hard, but this is too much for you to deal with by yourself - you have to put it in God's hands. You have to have the faith to LEAVE it in God's hands! He will pick you up and carry you when you no longer have the strength to walk on your own.
I'm praying that you will find comfort in knowing that all things will happen according to God's plan.....in God's time. Trust in him and know that he hears you and loves you. He knows every hair on your head and knew you before you were born. You don't have to go through this alone! Know that we are all praying - and that Jesus said where two or more are gathered in my name - there I am also.
We're your friends DC, we love you. Please lean on us, that's what we're here for.
Amen and AMEN!!
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Prayers continuing for you all during this difficult time. Lean on our Heavenly Father, He wants us to, all we ever need to do is ask for His support, and He gives it gladly and lovingly, 24 hours per day, 365 days per year...
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Thank you all very much for the words of encouragement and the needed prayers.
Got to the hospital at 9:30am and finally got to go into the room at 1:30pm for about 15 minutes.
Cliff is intubated and knocked out, so I didn't get a chance to look into his eyes. But it was very cathartic nonetheless.
He's got 4 IV bags working and at this time are trying to get his blood pressure up. Currently about 90/44. The blood clot in his lung is small and they don't seem to be concerned about it at this time...compared to the main issue at hand. Infection is a major concern now. They are pumping his stomach which has relieved us all.
Trauma MD said he's still bleeding from that artery, and they plan on having the discussion regarding approach (amputation) when they're able to wake him stabilized. It's a conversation which I want no part of. Will let his wife and brother handle that when the time comes.
He looks good...his color seems normal. Just heavily sedated. And given what his past 48 hours have been, it's a blessing.
I was surprised when Jason asked me to stick around. Was planning on being 'invisible' on the sidelines. I don't do well in those situations but drama in that venue is not part of my makeup. I just sit and stare through silent tears...hoping I get the chance to share a belly laugh with him as we've done since he was a little boy.
His wife did give me some good news. The biopsy on her breast was benign, which is a huge relief for all.
So, I left and have to do a little work. Jason asked me to be on standby for later, as his car is still in Bethesda, and he wanted to have dinner with me tonight in Baltimore.
That's it for now.
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Thank you all very much for the words of encouragement and the needed prayers.
Got to the hospital at 9:30am and finally got to go into the room at 1:30pm for about 15 minutes.
Cliff is intubated and knocked out, so I didn't get a chance to look into his eyes. But it was very cathartic nonetheless.
He's got 4 IV bags working and at this time are trying to get his blood pressure up. Currently about 90/44. The blood clot in his lung is small and they don't seem to be concerned about it at this time...compared to the main issue at hand. Infection is a major concern now. They are pumping his stomach which has relieved us all.
Trauma MD said he's still bleeding from that artery, and they plan on having the discussion regarding approach (amputation) when they're able to wake him stabilized. It's a conversation which I want no part of. Will let his wife and brother handle that when the time comes.
He looks good...his color seems normal. Just heavily sedated. And given what his past 48 hours have been, it's a blessing.
I was surprised when Jason asked me to stick around. Was planning on being 'invisible' on the sidelines. I don't do well in those situations but drama in that venue is not part of my makeup. I just sit and stare through silent tears...hoping I get the chance to share a belly laugh with him as we've done since he was a little boy.
His wife did give me some good news. The biopsy on her breast was benign, which is a huge relief for all.
So, I left and have to do a little work. Jason asked me to be on standby for later, as his car is still in Bethesda, and he wanted to have dinner with me tonight in Baltimore.
That's it for now.
Just to let you know you and yours have been not only in my prayers but thoughts as well.
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Thank you so much for the update. Hang in there DCP... be sure to get good nourishment and rest. Prayers continue.
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Thanks for the update DC...still praying...
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Thanks for the update DC, be strong my friend. :bighug:
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Thank you all....am so privileged to be able to have caring friends like you. Truly amazing!
Just got off the phone with Jason....surgery is scheduled for tomorrow. Asked what time, and Jason said, in that hospital "STC" doesn't stand for Shock Trauma Center. It means "Subject to Change". It depends on whether an emergency arrives that cannot wait. It's an unbelievable hospital. One can see whey their reputation is nationally renowned.
Asked Jason to elaborate on the "surgery", and he said they are going to do another major cleanup and determine how acute the infection is in the bone(s). His blood pressure dropped again and he has a fever of 103. They are giving him drugs of some kind to get the BP up...don't have the numbers.
Asked Jason if he thinks they are going to amputate and he said, "Dad if it were me, I'd let them take it. Enough is enough!"
But again, they'll speak to Cliff about it before they do such a thing.
Glad that Jason and Rebecca are able to sleep in their own homes tonight and getting a chance at some normalcy. Big day tomorrow....
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These are such trying times. Prayers for the strength to get through it, DC.
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Update:
Cliff spoke with surgeons and when they spelled it out for him, he (rather quickly) opted for them to amputate his leg. Surgery is tomorrow.
They told him that he would never be able to walk normally and that he would be dragging "that thing" behind him for the rest of his life. Furthermore, they told him that it has already almost killed him twice already and he would continue to be subject to possible blood clots.
What made him settle on his decision was also when they told him he would need further surgeries every few days for the next 3+ weeks...cleaning it...staving off infections, etc.. Cliff said he's been through a virtual hell and cannot stand the pain and suffering any longer.
We're all perversely happy about his decision, as it's been a terrible stress on his wife and brother, who've spent virtually all their time at the hospital, even sleeping there. Everybody needs to get on with life.
We also know it's going to be a long haul for him...getting off the pain killers and other drug cocktails necessary to keep him sedated, and also the physical therapy.
He's a strong man. We're all very proud of him for reconciling the situation so quickly.
Once more, thank you everyone for the prayers and well wishes and for allowing me to share this ordeal with you all.
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Heart breaking news, DCP, but the right decision for your son and his young family.
Prayers continue daily for the healing process.
God Bless him and God give him the strength in the coming days.
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Heart breaking news, DCP, but the right decision for your son and his young family.
Prayers continue daily for the healing process.
God Bless him and God give him the strength in the coming days.
Indeed. Prayers for all DCP.
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If anyone cares to light a candle for Cliff and his family ....
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng
I set up a group called CLIFF.
(You can search the group at the bottom of the page)
Thanks
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That is a shame, DC. I am very sorry to hear it.
In the long run there is no reason why he won't be able to live a long, productive and happy life. When I was in college I was assigned to write an essay for a class and decided to interview women who had survived breast cancer. Many of them told me that in a strange way their cancer was the best thing to happen to them. I sincerely hope that in 10 years time your son says the same thing about all he is going through now.
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That is a shame, DC. I am very sorry to hear it.
In the long run there is no reason why he won't be able to live a long, productive and happy life. When I was in college I was assigned to write an essay for a class and decided to interview women who had survived breast cancer. Many of them told me that in a strange way their cancer was the best thing to happen to them. I sincerely hope that in 10 years time your son says the same thing about all he is going through now.
There is a level of clarity a serious medical situation can provide. It allows you to recognize you need to do what you need to do to survive.
Good luck to your son, D.C.
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Very sorry to hear DC, but sounds like it would have been so much worse had he not made the decision. I'm sure Cliff will get a lot of help from you and his family. Take care.
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I'm so sorry to hear this, DC, but firmly agree with others who have said that it's the right decision. He'll be able to live a normal life, and I think won't regret this decision, under the circumstances.
Cliff will be in my prayers tomorrow and all of you. The coming days will be difficult, but God is faithful!
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Update:
Cliff spoke with surgeons and when they spelled it out for him, he (rather quickly) opted for them to amputate his leg. Surgery is tomorrow.
They told him that he would never be able to walk normally and that he would be dragging "that thing" behind him for the rest of his life. Furthermore, they told him that it has already almost killed him twice already and he would continue to be subject to possible blood clots.
What made him settle on his decision was also when they told him he would need further surgeries every few days for the next 3+ weeks...cleaning it...staving off infections, etc.. Cliff said he's been through a virtual hell and cannot stand the pain and suffering any longer.
We're all perversely happy about his decision, as it's been a terrible stress on his wife and brother, who've spent virtually all their time at the hospital, even sleeping there. Everybody needs to get on with life.
We also know it's going to be a long haul for him...getting off the pain killers and other drug cocktails necessary to keep him sedated, and also the physical therapy.
He's a strong man. We're all very proud of him for reconciling the situation so quickly.
Once more, thank you everyone for the prayers and well wishes and for allowing me to share this ordeal with you all.
Sorry to hear this, DCP, but under the circumstances it sounds like your son has made the right decision.
And from what we have learned of him via your posts, I expect that he will move forward with the rest of his life even stronger for this event. Don't be surprised if he is once again golfing, coaching, working, and living life sooner than anyone expects!! Prosthetics these days are amazing in their functionality and comfort, and Cliff sounds like the kind of guy that will do all that he needs to make the most of it!!
Our prayers will continue for you all...
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If anyone cares to light a candle for Cliff and his family ....
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng
I set up a group called CLIFF.
(You can search the group at the bottom of the page)
Thanks
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What a very nice idea, IA!! I went to the link and found the candle group for Cliff and lit one too!! Thank you for starting this group for Cliff!!
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Ongoing prayers for Cliff's healing and speedy recovery, strength for the road ahead. It may not be the ending that we want, but he has much to be thankful for - he is alive and able to be with his family. Prayers for you too DC!
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It may not be the ending that we want, but he has much to be thankful for - he is alive and able to be with his family.
Exactly....his life is more important.....praying that this speeds his recovery...he will overcome this like many others have....
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Thank you so much, everyone! And thank you IzzyAnn, for the thoughtful candle site for Cliff. Went there earlier, but couldn't find it...will try again later. LOL! Not that computer savvy.
Just returned from the hospital and Cliff seems to be in pretty good spirits, considering. He said he's scheduled "1st thing in the morning".
He's already planning on changing his vehicle to a Jeep...something he can get in and out of...a rear area that can accommodate a wheelchair, etc., if he feels like using one.
As you said, Myst, the doctor told him there are prosthetics for the beach, for jogging, for playing golf and so on.
Got to admit however, I'm still having a hard time wrapping my head around all of it. :shrug: In one moment, your life changes completely.
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Praying for you this morning!
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I lit a candle. Nice site!
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Got to admit however, I'm still having a hard time wrapping my head around all of it. :shrug: In one moment, your life changes completely.
Yeah...
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Thanks musiclady and Lando...
On my way up there now... He 'chased' us out last night about midnight, so that he could be alone with his brother, Jason. They wanted to talk and pray together.
They're very close....not only brothers 2 years apart, but partners in owning a real estate firm in Gaithersburg, MD.
Expect that he's in recovery by this time.
His new journey begins....
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Everything go OK and recovering now?
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Everything go OK and recovering now?
Yes, Dan.
He's in very good spirits, considering. He's looking forward to getting out of the hospital and on with his rehabiliation, etc..
Thank you Myst, for allowing me the opportunity to communicate all the events, updates, etc.. Couldn't have gotten through this without all the prayers and well wishes from everybody.
NOTE: I will respectfully ask all future inquiries be done by PM...so that we can all put this behind us. It's time. Hope you all understand.
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Elias, Clifford and teammate.
My son with his brand new prosthetic arrived yesterday (Friday)
Next day, he's taking my grandson Eli to his first traveling tournament of the season in Hershey, PA.
Just wanted to share this with all here who were engaged on the thread. Thank you all, very much.
The power of prayer....
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He looks wonderful!!!....yes indeed...Praise the Lord for answering our prayers.
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Arriving at the end of this thread and seeing a smiling young man with his new leg. Continued blessings on this family.
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Elias, Clifford and teammate.
My son with his brand new prosthetic arrived yesterday (Friday)
Next day, he's taking my grandson Eli to his first traveling tournament of the season in Hershey, PA.
Just wanted to share this with all here who were engaged on the thread. Thank you all, very much.
The power of prayer....
How wonderful.....thanks for the update
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Elias, Clifford and teammate.
My son with his brand new prosthetic arrived yesterday (Friday)
Next day, he's taking my grandson Eli to his first traveling tournament of the season in Hershey, PA.
Just wanted to share this with all here who were engaged on the thread. Thank you all, very much.
The power of prayer....
So glad to hear the news DC - he's come a long way!
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I join in the praise to the Lord for this answer to prayer!
Thanks for letting us know, DC.
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Thank you all for the well wishes/acknowledgments today.
It's true when they say, "This too, shall pass!" :laugh:
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I haven't been around in a few days, so I missed this. Great pic! So happy to see!
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Starting my day with a smile, my friend?
He's looking good indeed!
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Wow! How nice to see this! Thank you for sharing that wonderful pic.
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Elias, Clifford and teammate.
My son with his brand new prosthetic arrived yesterday (Friday)
Next day, he's taking my grandson Eli to his first traveling tournament of the season in Hershey, PA.
Just wanted to share this with all here who were engaged on the thread. Thank you all, very much.
The power of prayer....
Awesome!
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Elias, Clifford and teammate.
My son with his brand new prosthetic arrived yesterday (Friday)
Next day, he's taking my grandson Eli to his first traveling tournament of the season in Hershey, PA.
Just wanted to share this with all here who were engaged on the thread. Thank you all, very much.
The power of prayer....
The power of prayer .....indeed !!!!!
Thanks for sharing, DC.
May the Lord continue to Bless Cliff, his family and his Dad .......
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Just wanted to share a proud moment here. My grandson Elias just won his traveling team's baseball tournament in Florida this week.
You can see Cliff is getting around just fine That's my granddaughter who will be starting classes at the University of Kentucky come September.
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Wonderful pic! Resiliency of family!
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Wonderful pic! Resiliency of family!
Yep...it's all just a bad dream now. Cliff's getting around just fine...working on his golf game.
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Just wanted to share a proud moment here. My grandson Elias just won his traveling team's baseball tournament in Florida this week.
You can see Cliff is getting around just fine That's my granddaughter who will be starting classes at the University of Kentucky come September.
Fantastic! Looks happy. Most of us never begin to go through or can even imagine what he underwent. And now look at him. :beer:
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Amen, MAC! :beer:
...it'll be a year, come September 6th.
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One year in September? Wow! And now? Smiles all around!
With each passing day I come to realize all I really control or have impact upon is my family and a very, very small orbit beyond. The sphere doesn't need to enlarge much and my input is diminished to nil. I continue to pray for my family and those within that sphere.
Celebrate those smiles DCP, and rejoice. I sure do. Thanks for sharing.
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Wonderful!
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Yep...it's all just a bad dream now. Cliff's getting around just fine...working on his golf game.
Awesome thing to behold DC.
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He looks great!
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Thank you all for the acknowledgements and well wishes.
You've all made it much easier to go through it in real time.
Love you all...truly! :beer:
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Coincidentally, it's a year ago today I believe that Cliff lost his leg.
Today, he played in the annual golf tournament he missed last year.
He is featured on the cover in the latest ACHIEVER magazine for EXIT REALTY, where he is a co-owner of a local Maryland office with his brother Jason.
He's transformed into quite the public speaker since his accident.
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That is brilliant news, David! Made me smile hard to see/hear how well he's doing.
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Coincidentally, it's a year ago today I believe that Cliff lost his leg.
Today, he played in the annual golf tournament he missed last year.
He is featured on the cover in the latest ACHIEVER magazine for EXIT REALTY, where he is a co-owner of a local Maryland office with his brother Jason.
He's transformed into quite the public speaker since his accident.
Fantastic news! I am ecstatic to hear this!
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David, knowing the genuine anguish you and the family went through during the ordeal, this news is especially joyful and inspirational. Just wonderful. I could not be happier for you. From Darkness... Light.
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Coincidentally, it's a year ago today I believe that Cliff lost his leg.
Today, he played in the annual golf tournament he missed last year.
He is featured on the cover in the latest ACHIEVER magazine for EXIT REALTY, where he is a co-owner of a local Maryland office with his brother Jason.
He's transformed into quite the public speaker since his accident.
What great news. You must be proud!
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How in hell did I miss this?
DC, you're a heroic person and your son is a superstar. God bless you for all you've been through.
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DC, had no knowledge of this when it happened but most pleased to hear the situation seems to have improved greatly. Blessings on you, your son, and your entire family.
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Thank you for all the kind words. You are like family to me.
Just wanted to share with you how well he's progressed. He's come out of this a much stronger and better person.
....now if only I could do something with his politics. :laugh:
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Coincidentally, it's a year ago today I believe that Cliff lost his leg.
Today, he played in the annual golf tournament he missed last year.
He is featured on the cover in the latest ACHIEVER magazine for EXIT REALTY, where he is a co-owner of a local Maryland office with his brother Jason.
He's transformed into quite the public speaker since his accident.
AWESOME!!!! Congrats!
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Coincidentally, it's a year ago today I believe that Cliff lost his leg.
Today, he played in the annual golf tournament he missed last year.
He is featured on the cover in the latest ACHIEVER magazine for EXIT REALTY, where he is a co-owner of a local Maryland office with his brother Jason.
He's transformed into quite the public speaker since his accident.
Such wonderful news!
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Cliff spoke to a sold-out EXIT Realty Convention in Nashville, Tennessee this morning...to a crowd of 2,000 +
Looking at all the pics on FaceBook (he has hundreds of "Followers")....and suddenly I'm wracked with sobs and all this salty discharge is coming out of my eyes!
Love you all for your support. It was a monumental event for Cliff today. He would come over to my condo once or twice a week and we'd reminisce and laugh so hard we cried. He more than once whipped out his notebook and took notes....he said for his 50 minute 'talk'
Standing ovations...had the women AND men crying their eyes out!
I'm so proud of him.
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Cliff spoke to a sold-out EXIT Realty Convention in Nashville, Tennessee this morning...to a crowd of 2,000 +
Looking at all the pics on FaceBook (he has hundreds of "Followers")....and suddenly I'm wracked with sobs and all this salty discharge is coming out of my eyes!
Love you all for your support. It was a monumental event for Cliff today. He would come over to my condo once or twice a week and we'd reminisce and laugh so hard we cried. He more than once whipped out his notebook and took notes....he said for his 50 minute 'talk'
Standing ovations...had the women AND men crying their eyes out!
I'm so proud of him.
Awesome DC....thanks for posting.
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Cliff spoke to a sold-out EXIT Realty Convention in Nashville, Tennessee this morning...to a crowd of 2,000 +
Looking at all the pics on FaceBook (he has hundreds of "Followers")....and suddenly I'm wracked with sobs and all this salty discharge is coming out of my eyes!
Love you all for your support. It was a monumental event for Cliff today. He would come over to my condo once or twice a week and we'd reminisce and laugh so hard we cried. He more than once whipped out his notebook and took notes....he said for his 50 minute 'talk'
Standing ovations...had the women AND men crying their eyes out!
I'm so proud of him.
Aw gee, DC - you got me crying too! Our lives sure do take twists and turns that we have trouble seeing where we're heading at the time - but retrospect shows us that no matter what life throws at us - we can triumph!
I'm so happy for Cliff!
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He's a good man.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1r-4N49MD4&feature=youtu.be
This was just released today....by Adidas - "Bring Back The Game..."
It's been two years. He's trying for Japan Olympics 2020.
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Wow DC - I know you are a proud dad! Who could have seen that Cliff would triumph over such a devastating life-changing accident? So happy that prayers were answered - praise God! This is awesome!
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1r-4N49MD4&feature=youtu.be
This was just released today....by Adidas - "Bring Back The Game..."
It's been two years. He's trying for Japan Olympics 2020.
This is truly wonderful @DCPatriot You must be so proud! :bighug:
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Wonderful, miraculous stuff, D.
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He's come a ways since that day....and yes, I'm proud as hell that he didn't give up.
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Wow DC I consider you a friend and had absolutely know idea that this had transpired and I just wandered into this thread. You have every right to be tremendously proud and so should your son! Your son's story is truly amazing and very inspiring and certainly gives a message of courage and hope. Hugs. Thanks for sharing; I really needed to hear this story ...
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Prayers for the young man and the doctors treating him.
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He's come a ways since that day....and yes, I'm proud as hell that he didn't give up.
As well you should be!
He is a strong, strong young man, and a reflection of his upbringing.
Well done, my friend!
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This was just released today....by Adidas - "Bring Back The Game..."
It's been two years. He's trying for Japan Olympics 2020.
Beautiful, DC. As an avid golfer myself, I have to say the video of your son brought a tear to my eye.
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Beautiful, DC. As an avid golfer myself, I have to say the video of your son brought a tear to my eye.
Thank you, @mountaineer !
He hits it a ton from the tee. In Toronto, when they filmed this, one of the woman pros stopped and went under the ropes to watch him. They were having a tournament that weekend.
He's trying out for the 2020 Toyko Olympics. And I've learned not to underestimate him.
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@libertybele @Rivergirl @musiclady
Thank you so much for the kind words.
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@DCPatriot
Both thumbs and all of my heart up.
Fantastic!
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@DCPatriot
VERY happy for both you and Cliff! I hope he turns the world on it's ear!
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Praying for your son and all your family.
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Thank you everyone! :beer:
@GtHawk @Bigun @bigheadfred