Same here. I'd rather control things myself. I bought manual transmission vehicles until the last one. Aside from worrying about my knees refusing to operate the clutch...a manual is hard to find these days. And , as far as alexa and siri...I have no interest.
Well, I will admit it is nicer to be able to push a button and have 4 wheel drive than getting out in whatever mess you were in and locking in the hubs, but I can still do either. I like my pickup (2WD), but it was built with the 55 MPH limit on, and it's geared a mite low for running the highway now (80 on the interstates, speedo pegs at 85). I really like the wing windows, though, and 'granny gear' is low enough to get going on ice. But that's why I have 3 vehicles, one for every purpose.