Nobody gives a shit. That's the problem. I've cried for help how many times, and our society just keeps freaking out and running away, just like the girls.
@jmyrlefuller Jimmy,there are just some things you MUST do for yourself,and finding a mate is right up there at the top of the list.
Yeah,it CAN be tough to find someone suitable that thinks that you are also suitable,but real life is sometimes a lot like baseball,ya gotta get up to bat before you can score any home runs,and not every "at bat" is going to be a winner for you,me,or ANYBODY else.
Life and love both require you to get out there and take your lumps,shake them off,and then put thyself into the "batting box" again.
Sure,you ARE going to get turned down a LOT of times.
Guess what. So is everybody else that is not a rock star or multi-millionaire,and the truth is they probably have to take their lumps,too.
The "game" of romance is not for the weak of heart because you WILL get smacked down more often than not.
No,it is not "fair",but neither is anything else in life. It only SEEMS to be fair when you finally hit that "home run" you have been dreaming about. THEN it will all seem to have just fallen into place.
That's just the way that life is for us all.
BTW,this applies to women,too.
BTW-2,all this advise is worth every dollar you paid for it.