9 to 5? She's lucky to have such a regular work schedule.
I'm salaried ... every hour over 40 is free ... I work late nights, weekends, and holidays ... without warning, my plans and schedule can be shot to Hell by an unplanned incident at work, or the lack of planning by a VIP ... I used to have to commute 90 minutes each way (before accidents, snow, construction, public transporation SNAFU), so my daily rountrip commute was 3 hours minimum ... the longest day I ever worked was 32 hours (in the office without going home or taking a nap) ... if you want to earn more than minimum wage and get benefits, you have to suffer, make sacrifices, and hope the stress doesn't kill you before you're elligible for reitirement.
Welcome to the working Middle Class, honey.