I respect all the people on this forum. Everyone.
At the same time I do not think that it is possible for a NeverTrumper to 'see the light', so to speak. They can never change. Trump is too inculcated into their psyche. Trump is ingrained/intertwined with their soul. Trump is the last thing they think about before going to bed. Trump is what they dream about while sleeping. Trump is the first thing they think about when they wake up. If Hitler and the anti-Christ had sex in Satan's bedroom, Trump would be the offspring. And so given that, a global nuclear war with Russia and China is preferable to Trump. A complete reversal of American demographics is preferable. The international collapse of the dollar can be overcome. And violent unchecked crime and riots will sort themselves out.
TDS is a clinically documented mental disorder. As one NeverTrumper put it, "I would rather die than to ever vote for Trump! Adding, and I just might."
That is how committed NeverTrumpers are. They are willing to take it all the way to death itself not only for themselves, but for their family, their children, their neighbors, and their friends. We will all die together Jim Jones style before we will ever vote for Trump. How can anyone deal with people like that? No amount of reason will sway them. And if they are willing to "die for the cause", then no amount of actual reality (the reality we all clearly see and live with right now, today, at this very moment) will make any difference.
Personally, I think Trump and his entire family, along with anyone who has ever worked for or with him, including everyone who ever voted for him and all their friends and families should all be rounded up and thrown in a dungeon. Then they should be injected with leprosy, cancer, and AIDS. After a year of bread and water they will be burned at the stake with Trump the first in line. And even that is too good for them. But that is just my opinion...