@sneakypete
Your business, pal. I'm just worrying for you, what with the chemo brain, and now all this... and you being alone (like me).
Worse that way for you, as I have the benefit of my clan and the womenfolk thereof, so while I am alone, I get a few visitors every day, and my niece is here (right now) to clean my house, and my son and his wife keep the yard and handle repairs while I am low...
So I am nowhere near as alone as you are... tough for me must be worse for you... and that's my worry. Hope your neighbors can drop in, at least.
Never thought about firearms being an issue... LOL!
I got a 1911 .45 sitting right next to my chair on the end table, very much in plain sight, and nobody has said a thing. 😁
@roamer_1 My ex comes around all the time,and I go to where she lives and spend time with her 3 or 4 times a week. I am also friends with her sister and her mother,not to mention her oldest daughter,who is a MD at a local hospital.
Lent my new Camry to my ex for a couple of days last week when she needed something reliable to go out of town in.
She feeds the stray cats for me when I am unable to,and also feeds my house and shop cats for me.
Her mother checked me out with the local "mother network" when I first started dating her youngest (not my ex) daughter,and then told me one night when I went there to pick her up that I was free to go out with either of her daughters anytime I wanted,and to take them any place they and I wanted to go.
I do NOT hurt women,and I do NOT allow anyone else to hurt any woman I am with,period. THAT is carved in stone.
I am not as alone as you may think.