In Putin's fantasy, Ukraine would be overrun in 3 or 4 weeks. He probably planned to celebrate Easter 2022 in Kyiv.
Family history aside, I do not want part or all of Ukraine grafted into Putin's empire.
Aside from impressive grain growing regions, Ukraine produced a large share of its oil and gas, 87% of which was in the regions Russia invaded (Donbas), along with reserves of hard coal (particularly anthracite), rock salt, lignite, mercury, and various ores.
This was an attempt at economic seizure, to control food and other resources.
I have a problem with Russia invading a sovereign nation to take their natural wealth, and any increase in Russian ability to use that wealth as an implement of policy.
Aside from that let Ukraine decide its destiny and provide the materiel it needs to fight off the invasion.
Now, if only we would do that for our own country, too, instead of spending king's ransoms catering to those who are invading us.