You just have to find the right girl. My youngest son is marrying his high school sweetheart and she’s a good girl. I guess stay away from the cheap dating sites. That’s where I think you’re more likely to find your problems.
I found my right girl driving home from work one day. I was almost there and here was this girl lying in the road. I dang near spilled my beer trying not to run over her. Got out, dusted her off. She cleaned up well. I had the suspicion it was a trick, but here we are, 37 years later.