There is no such thing as "non-binary" where gender is concerned. If you're a person who likes to do what used to be called cross-dressing, then fine, call yourself a cross-dresser, or a "clothing isn't gendered" dresser, but don't pretend that you are something other than a biological male, a biological female, or - I suppose - you could be a neuter, but only if you've had your sexual organs removed.