BTW,for those of you who don't know,being born into a very wealthy and/or famous/privileged family is not the "ice cream party" you might think it is.
I was once friends,maybe even the only actual friend she had,with a "summer girl" who visiting one of the family beachfront mansions in the summer.
She was very quiet and kept to herself. I don't remember the circumstances we met under,but she seemed to understand that I honestly didn't give a rabid rat's ass about her family money or possessions.
She was very attractive and pretty quiet. Drove a used Volvo the family kept in the garage for local transportation,and wore regular clothes with no jewelry. She,and they,when they came,would fly in using one of the family corporate jets,so they had to leave a car there for local transportation.
They had locals hired to maintain the mansion when no one was there,as well as when there was. I can't remember at this late date if the head of the family at that time was her father or grandfather,but it doesn't really matter.
She never once mentioned her family wealth,but since I knew where she lived,it wasn't a secret to me. I even knew her father,but only to not to or say "Hello." He was a VERY wealthy man with businesses all over the world,not just the US,as well as mucho political connections and power.
All this was why this bright,pretty young lady had no actual friends. By the time she was 20 she understood VERY well that people would try to make friends with her in order to gain access to her family wealth and/or connections, and she never trusted anyone.
And "yes,this does include me." Don't get me wrong,I would have jumped her bones in a minute if she had been interested,but it never happened.
She pretty much HAD to live this way.
At the advanced age I am now I think that given a choice between gaining moderate wealth that allows you and your family privacy,and gaining uber wealth,a wise man would choose moderate wealth.
After all,what good IS money beyond what you could ever spend or need for the things you need in life?
Having Uber Wealth means you will end up spending pretty much your whole life protecting your wealth to the point that the money owns you. Moderate wealth allows you a little freedom.