I read an article some months ago about some "trans" woman i.e. man who had all his male equipment removed. He then considered himself a real woman.
But he couldn't understand why men didn't then find him attractive. According to him it was all just fleshy stuff down there....what was the difference?
I would guess many of the suicides of these seriously disturbed individuals is when they realize that just about nobody will find them attractive.
At my last place of work one individual decided he was a female and had all the surgery done. He wasn't the greatest looking guy in the world, but he wasn't ugly. But as a 6'3 hairy female he was exceptionally ugly. But he also considered himself a lesbian. He was attracted to women, but decided that hacking all his male parts off and dressing like a woman would make him attractive to real females.
I can't figure it out.
@goatprairie I worked with a nice guy at the AFB in Denver a few decades ago. Pleasant guy,good worker,good personality,but was so light in the loafers he almost needed to be tied down.
Got to talking with him one day after I felt like he knew me well enough to know I wasn't attacking him,and asked him why he became queer.
He told me that he was and is attracted to females,but they were never attracted to him because of his odd looks (short,skinny,orange kinky hair,pimples in his 20's,odd-looking teeth,and who knows what else?),but that never seemed to bother homosexual men,who took him out,wined and dined him,and treated him like a princess.
I suspected,but never asked,that these men taking him out were probably in their 40's and he was still a teen when he flipped sides. If he is still alive,he is in his late 60's now,and most likely very lonely.
Since he was a horn dog and seemed to have no other options,he went light in the loafers.
BTW,he HAD to have leaned bi-sexual or he wouldn't have been able to switch teams.