19 and stupid? Your marriage has lasted 45 years, give yourself some credit here.
I did date a guy who on the first date, took me to look at wedding dresses and showed me the church we were going to get married in. I never dated him again! He scared me.
@libertybele Why? Did you think he might be a little obsessive?
I once dated a redheaded woman (my all-time favorite kind of woman) who asked me on our second date "What are you going to buy my son for his birthday?"
Her son seemed to be a perfectly nice toddler,but I was maybe 20 years old and this was on our second date,so I told him "I'm not going to buy him anything."
She responded with "Don't you love him?"
I responded with "Hell,no! I don't even love you!"
And that was the end of the second,and final date.
I still think I dodged a bullet on that one to this very day.